(As a cheating wife, her STDs and cuckoldry rightfully gets a woman divorced, men and their STDs, extramarital spending and bastard children likewise don’t deserve to be married).
It’s so important to religious covenant and Christian civilization it’s in the 10 commandments. I can’t believe some of you are blatantly lying about this demand, saying it’s expected for a man to ‘sow his oats’ – maybe in the immoral society you laugh at, even the immoral classes say it strictly applies before he settles down. Observe a settling object, it stops! Completely.
Don’t get married if you can’t be monogamous for the rest of your life, how difficult is this to understand? If you choose to take on the duties of a man, MAN UP. Don’t cower and make feeble excuses for your weakness and personal failings.
I’ve quoted the marriage vow before, marriage is a contractual obligation. If you don’t hold up your end of the bargain you deserve to be sued for it. Act like an adult if you are willing to sign a contract like one OR don’t get married. It’s a choice, freely taken. Honestly, it’s like the doublethink is ingrained among so-called redpills, don’t the words you repeat as an oath before your peers give you a hint about what’s expected of you? “…faithful husband” doesn’t ring any bells?
One of the few means one could obtain a divorce in the strict Olden Days was adultery, it deserves the death penalty in Christianity, it’s right up there with murder because it’s a betrayal of the family unit and spits on society. It means you are disloyal to your own house, useful as a coward in battle, how can you be expected to build, support and defend it?? A man fails to be a man when he cannot do those things. Extramarital expenditure, time and affection on the adultress and/or her mystery-meat bastards detract from what he could give to those who have committed themselves to him (the wife and the children), bound legally, financially and theoretically, after death.
“In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife.” source
The supposed red-pillers seem to miss out parts like that because they go against Bravado Narrative.
Bear in mind, back then marriage was still a choice. If you aren’t completely serious, don’t do it. If you marry for ego, it won’t work out. You marry to take care of the other person. If you can’t be selfless, if you can’t sacrifice because some insecure manwhore called it ‘beta’, simply abstain from something for once in your life.
“But those who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this.“
The reason for the feigned ignorance of marital responsibility is the classic Feminist Dilemma. They want to Have it All but it involves lying to those who love them most in the world, because if you take-take-take and don’t give your due, people have a bizarre habit of abandonment. In the age of technology, cheating will be found out eventually.
To those men who go into a marriage actively planning to cheat: You’re no better than the filthiest, fugliest feminists. If you want to indulge your basest urges fine, if you’re single, the rest of us can ignore you, maybe laugh at your antics. However, it isn’t an accident to create damage to a community of people, as cheating does, for a squirt of endorphin; it isn’t an accident of your own volition (I was drunk and other non-excuses) or ‘evolution lol’ and you can help it, even chimps have self-control. Don’t bring innocents into it, people would be correct to hate you for it, nothing to do with your sex or bad culture. If you screw someone over, especially in a contract, expect them to take very deserved revenge. An eye for an eye. Karma is real in the sense that social relations even out over time. In a marriage, all you’ve got is time. Spare the woman the humiliation of being married to you if you truly love her or I hope she takes you to the cleaners when she finds out.