What Men Think Women Value vs. What Women Actually Value (SMV)

Test: Were these two charts made by a man or a woman?

From the laddertheory site. You can click through. Notice on the female it says attractions to avoid the ego blow of listing looks?

From the laddertheory site. You can click through although most of the detail is bullshit.                             Notice on the female it says the super-vague attraction to avoid the ego blow of listing looks?

I covered the male delusion that women don’t care about appearance here: https://disenchantedscholar.wordpress.com/2015/07/18/women-care-about-looks-stop-deluding-yourselves-guys/

I’ll use the same values as the male chart for the easiest demonstrative purposes.
It should be eye-opening. This is all short-term strategy obviously.

The male version for lolz;

maneedfemaleSMV

Drumroll please;

femaleneedmaleSMV

The truth, it burns.

This is bare minimum, remember, it isn’t the same process as long-term deliberation and wife/husband material.

3 responses to “What Men Think Women Value vs. What Women Actually Value (SMV)

  1. Whether or not someone is objectively attractive to the opposite sex has nothing to do with the “sexual opportunity” you have with them. You judge how hot someone is then you make a separate judgement as to whether they are worth pursuing or not. Sure, you want what you cant have, or if you think she’s slept around you might want her less/think its more worth pursuing her, but these are subjective measures that belong in “social status” or “other”.

    You are right, guys pretend that looks matter less than they do. But presenting the info as you do is at best misleading. Guys want sex, girls want commitment. Saying “oh yeah the graph above doesn’t include judgement as it relates to ltr” is accurate, but makes your graph superfluous. Any girl can get sex, what they actually want is to feel like they have some form of permanent claim on a decent guy’s time. No one relevant cares about the girl looking for a one night stand, the guys despise her (we’ll still fuck her) just as much as the girls are disgusted by her. But I think you knew this already.

    I like your other work.

1. Be civil. 2. Be logical or fair. 3. Do not bore me.

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