It’s bizarre to mock people for the default, something they were born as. Shaming virgins for NOT doing something has never made logical sense, except to make sluts feel better about their non-sexual desirability and scupper the competition by making them conceal their advantage.
This doesn’t solely apply to traditional women, either.
I don’t know any masculine men who define their masculinity by their sex lives.
Honestly, not a one. They have other stuff going on, and whatever happens there, they don’t kiss and tell and keep that stuff private – one reason people respect them.
As one guy put it a tad bluntly, ‘dogs rut and they aren’t men either’.
Reminded me of the foolish definition of man as bipedal and featherless so some smartass philosopher plucked a chicken and said “Behold! A man!”
It’s the one biological function people feel the need to brag about, but it makes them look bad.