Has she been reading me?
This is basically verbatim what I’ve been saying.
You self-improve and you’re not entitled to anyone.
You don’t deserve a good person.
Good people are naturally attracted to other good people.
If they don’t want you – guess what. You’re not good enough. You’re likely aiming too high and don’t know your MMV.
My marriage matrix is one of the most popular posts.
It’s also common sense.
The worst one is when sluts want a virgin.
Seriously, WTF is wrong with you? What’s with the fetish?
What happens after the honeymoon? They’ll hate you even more than another slut would.
For practical K-virtues in a man?
This girl nails it.
So clearly, men try to disqualify and ignore her.
Obviously you need to be independent to ~keep~ a wife and ~support~ a family.
It isn’t shallow to say that’s the goal, it’s basic biology.
Your forefathers are laughing at you and weeping at your tantrums over the way the species operates.
It’s bare minimum. If you don’t have one set of ambitions, why have the other that can’t be supported on air?
It’s like wanting a sportscar and never saving money but dropping five figures on gourmet coffee per year.
Your problem is obvious as it is basic.
If you can’t look after yourself, alone…………
The idea women don’t have a right to describe to men what they demand in a mate is preposterous.
The list wouldn’t be shocking, basically good father material.
She should’ve bullet-pointed. Try to be…..(more)
If the answer would be “I wouldn’t want my father to be that way” it’s a bad thing.
Briefly, K-women are at more of a premium than ever. They can afford to be more selective than ever. If you don’t respect this, they made the right choice in rejecting you. And wouldn’t you really rather a woman say No than accept you into an unhappy marriage because you were available to one another, despite the lack of fit?
The woman trying to secure a man, any man like a leech… because her biology is screaming at her, isn’t a good woman, the one you want.
Men can’t really perceive lack of fit in a relationship, women need our EQ for this, the peahen discernment skills.
Men display, so be the best unique display of yourself you can be.
Then who cares if you find your swan? You’ll be developed, you don’t need an accessory, scantron wife of attributes XYZ to impress other men, man.
Word of advice?
Don’t be so blackpill and embittered.
Women run a mile. We know everything sucks but it makes you sound personally weak.
Don’t do the macho thing either.
We can see right through you and you can’t keep it up the rest of your life.
Actually, a list of Don’t Do (This) would be more useful.
Then they’d bitch at us more for telling them the truth – you can’t handle the truth!
Selfish people get divorced. Don’t be selfish.
Don’t think you can trick us, we’re not stupid.
The majority of child IQ is maternal IQ, do you want dumb kids?
“Men gave up first. They gave up on the white picket fence for a few easy lays”
Too much brain?
Look at all the vintage inspiration stuff.
Make a private pinterest board to start figuring out likes/dislikes.
Design the life you want.
Life design is crucial and really what self-improvement is all about.
Actually, why aren’t there any vintage man blog and youtubers? Vintage lifestyle, music, fashion, books…. I’d like to see that, it’d be good for men.
Start with artofmanliness.com
Be the best man you can be.