Men marry for logical reasons, they believe they need to secure a woman to keep the benefits of a relationship going (or she will leave). Women tend to marry for emotional reasons, excepting gold-diggers.
Given this, why are more men choosing to marry less?
It is illogical to do so.
Surprise! The Sisterhood lied to you to try and steal your prospects for themselves.
Why? Ant and grasshopper.
If a man wanders off and makes a success of himself (attractive prospect in the marriage market) in the same time that a woman is wasting her youth (and yeah, that’s important for fertility reasons), there is no logical reason to buy in, especially when they can get a woman younger than themselves and less entitled (age does that).
What is the solution?
Women aren’t going to like it….
Become better wives.
Like a job, you need to demonstrate the skills before you get that promotion. It requires effort. Hey, just like a marriage!