Divorce risk factors

http://emorywheel.com/professors-study-marriage-economics/

Diamonds aren’t the problem, it’s the premium pricing that’s the problem.
People are living longer than ever, we need harder rocks.

It’s easy to find cheap, good quality diamonds and arrange a setting for the stone.

Husband/wife is a status.

Status-obsessed materialists (who want to get married but not be married) tend to divorce more because of the narcissism, and overt narcs tend to pair up with covert ones.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/understanding-narcissism/201712/how-the-3-types-narcissists-act-first-date

Once the money is gone, the spark fizzles out.

The study also found a correlation between marriage age and duration, which Francis wrote are positively related, meaning the older the person was when he or she got married, the longer the marriage was likely to last.

Maturity, waiting for the hormones to settle and personality to crystallize, few societies in history married off someone younger than 21-25, outside times of war (Regency, American Independence) but then only for re-population purposes, knowing it was less than ideal.

Another notable finding was that the larger differences in age and education between husbands and wives were associated with a higher risk of divorce,

Assortative mating wins again.

College IQ men marrying high-school IQ women is dysgenic.

 as was reporting that looks were important in marriage.

Vain men, bad husbands. As soon as she gets a little wrinkle, his “love” dies.

Evil people confuse lust with love. When the lust is spent, they claim to fall “out” of love. There is no falling “out” of true love, you can only be betrayed and detach. The love doesn’t go anywhere.

Marriage will get less expensive when it becomes more common.
As it is, only rich people can afford to marry.

That’s right, classism again.

Social media would make it a little gimmicky.

Abolishing no-fault divorce and making it hard (or impossible) to re-marry after a set N times would make people respect the institution again, nothing less will work.

Really, our era has the term “starter marriage” – nothing else will work.

If society didn’t get rid of rites of passage for both sexes, the social value of over-spending on a wedding would plummet. For women, debutante balls were important. Now the expense is carried over into bridal models.

Your kids

Little Emperor Syndrome is genetic. I never met a brat without brat parents.

Great point, but reverence for marriage itself is what we’re aiming at. It isn’t about any individual being ‘happ-y’, like every divorcee ever crows, humans aren’t like dogs, happiness doesn’t happen – it’s a useful excuse to do whatever they want in the moment, usually swinging, the true origin of hookup culture. Liberals started acting like everything was all ‘for the children’ the moment they wanted access to the neophyte brains of the conservative’s children. A behaviourist once said ‘give me the boy at 7 and I’ll give you the man’. You give a liberal your kids from 3-18… and they’re a drooling moron.

Once the ‘consenting adults’ excuse to morality doesn’t apply, they have NOTHING.

Divorce stats for interracial, mixed race and miscegenation marriages

My traffic stats are tingling after I triggered both sides of politics with the latest post about Yellow Fever.
Okay, let’s assume you want a marriage that’s lifelong.

Have a single one of you looked at the stats?

Did you just assume miscegenation with some Thai bride leads to traditional-length marriages, because she irons or something else domestic, like cooking?

You would be wrong.

interracialdivorcerates

http://www.divorcesource.com/blog/interracial-marriage-and-divorce/

Clearly some SMP hatefacts in there somewhere.

It’s so easy to prove you should feel bad.

Divorce rates among interracial couples are slightly higher than divorce rates among same-race couples,

Louder for the cucks at the back.

Divorce rates among interracial couples are slightly higher than divorce rates among same-race couples,

That’s the average, blending many factors.

showed interracial marriages were more likely to end in divorce than same-ethnic marriages — 41 percent versus 31 percent

aka if longevity is your chief concern, you should be the last people to mix
dipshits

if you don’t want to marry  your own race (assuming it’s white) you won’t be better off outside either

Moreover, members of interracial pairings are more likely to have traits correlated with a higher probability of divorce.

aka when you get divorced, it is also your fault

However, these studies failed to account for gender in connection with the race of each individual in interracial marriages.

They didn’t collect the data, it still exists. They don’t wanna get fired.

Let’s go for the White Fever Asian woman version, where she wants semi-white children.

A white husband and Asian wife were 4 percent more likely to end in divorce than marriages involving a white husband and white wife.

If you don’t have the facts, please shut up.
You’re not better than the mudsharks, statistically, you’re still losing. You still fail. Science.

http://isteve.blogspot.co.uk/2005/12/interracial-divorce-statistics.html

This isn’t a pro-white thing, statistically Asians are less likely to divorce – from cultural pressure, but only when they marry each other.

Whites are more likely to divorce in the first (easiest) decade, so they shouldn’t want you either.
Unless she’s just taking the socially acceptable route to use you for your sperm.
Like those white women you keep bitching about.

50smanangry

That’s an SJW post. Bet you didn’t notice. Go ahead and support their agenda.
You were warned, there is data.

whatsjwsimagine

This isn’t the shitpost you want today, but it’s the shitpost you deserve.

Mixed race couple divorce rates

h/t AlphaGamePlan

What goes unmentioned is the timing of divorce.

Once an Asian woman has her white babies, the man is redundant.

Recently, there has been a spate of Thai brides cheating on or divorcing their loser owners.

It’s magical.

oh damn wow ah

You can’t own a woman. Asians are worse than Whites.
Have you seen a middle-aged Asian woman hen-pecking the man? Who’s in charge there?

 

Married men are happier and why immature men fear commitment

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“Think bachelors have it made? It turns out married men are actually happier after marriage than they would be if they stayed single, according to researchers at Michigan State University.”

“The results: “People, on average, aren’t happier following marriage than they were before marriage, but they are happier than they would have been if they stayed single,” says Stevie C. Y. Yap, a doctoral candidate in the Department of Psychology at MSU and one of the study authors.”

Do the red pill ‘men’ cover this? Nope, because they’re bitter bachelors. Health improvements too from the connection, but they’ll keep catastrophizing marriage as the death of everything good in the world, wedding ring as a guillotine. The finding is pretty straightforward, in an even choice, marriage is the superior option.
Tbh I also think there’s a slight confound for maturity here. Masculine, mature men are more likely to get married and be happy in their wise selection. Naturally, they have no problem finding a good woman, being a good man themselves. Or another angle, being married isn’t so great per se, but the type of person who is forever alone is a bad thing to be, by comparison.

Married men are also more successful, another myth busted.
http://www.boundless.org/blog/why-are-married-men-hard-on-bachelors/

Marriage gives you support and a purpose, it helps you mature even more. The nurturing of a wife encourages a man to be more masculine, it’s a paradox, as well as the dependence paradox (you’ll feel more independent).

Nothing wrong with never getting married, just don’t lie about it to prospective dates.

The modern man sees cohabitation as superior to marriage and any woman stupid enough to agree to it, naively and silently expecting it’s a stepping stone instead of the final destination, deserves to be played. They get everything they want out of the woman with none of the responsibilities and expense. Women have this sunk cost fallacy where they wait around for years on a man who never said Yes to long-term. If he gives any answer to the future question than an emphatic Yes, it’s a no. Vague half-answers are chickening out of serving the truth too raw in case you break up with him because he wants the sex. Also, sleeping with a man won’t make him more attracted to you, it’ll make him respect you less for long-term prospects. You know if someone is a long-term prospect after a month, probably less. You know if you want to marry someone after a year, stop kidding yourself.

lhj.com/relationships/marriage/challenges/afraid-to-commit-young-men-want-to-wait-on-marriage/?page=2
cracked.com/blog/the-5-reasons-marriage-scares-men-arent-what-you-think_p2/
Fear of intimacy and fear of making the wrong choice factor in too.
Some don’t even expect to be faithful themselves which is… progressive. Yet they want the wife to be, which is insane. Do they even listen to the vows?

On another note, a husband shouldn’t be honoured until he cherishes his wife. As always in marriage, the male leads the example.

psychologytoday.com/blog/fighting-fear/201304/why-some-people-cant-find-anyone-marry

“Most people regard marriage as liberating, although they may not stop to think of it in just that way…”
“But not everyone sees it that way. For some people, marriage seems as if it will be a constraint.”
Bad attachment style. Avoid. Avoided. They should never marry.
A lot of them get so accustomed to only thinking of Number 1, they resent cooperation. Consider that. They cannot share their life.
“If a man or woman thinks of marriage as unpleasant, it will not be possible to find anyone desirable to marry.”

applause clap clapping yes well done

The OCD fear of divorce is keeping Gen Y from taking the step.
https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/12/111218150305.htm
Sure, live your life in fear, close yourself off to one of the best experiences in life, I’m sure the Reaper will understand. Never attend a job interview either, because your dream job may not be as great as you imagined.
If you actually wait too long, when you could‘ve married younger (as in, late 20s), then divorce risk goes up too.
https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2015/07/150716141945.htm
People in their 30s+ can become selfish and entitled, and build up such ridiculous expectations of marriage, the spouse will always fail. “I deserve XYZ because I’m so special, I waited all this time for you, worship me or I’ll leave” as if it’s a bf/gf arrangement and leaving is a casual matter.
Educated women aren’t a divorce risk either.
https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2014/07/140724092816.htm

People who confuse sleepovers with commitment.
https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/07/110725190040.htm

When they fail at romance, romance is a terrible idea for anyone and they pose as cynical because apathy is sexy amirite, because the fault can’t possibly lie with them, can it? Not Secret King, surely?!

Naturally these findings will be dismissed by bitter men with confirmation bias sucking lemons that other men are happy. I wrote about this in the New to the Manosphere? thing.
Appeal to exception, anecdotal evidence, fantastical What Ifs…. and that’s why they’re single. Fault-finding and nitpicking like a shrew.
Those are not reasons, those are post-hoc rationalizations. These are not smart people.
Low quality men cannot pass the social tests to hit the status symbol of marriage and long-term rite of passage it is. They can hardly keep a girlfriend happy for more than a few months, let alone a wife. Social skills of a hog in a suit. They mistakenly believe one party is like a slave and they can take anything out on the other party, it’ll magically patch all their insecurities and heal them with the bathing glow of magical sex, I’m sure that fantasy will end without the cops being called…

Spoiler: If you bitch about an entire sex, you aren’t nice.

5 Reasons Why The ‘Nice Guy’ Is Actually An Assh*le

“So, when you accuse women of always going for the wrong guy, you’re implying that you know better than they do. You’re rejecting the possibility that they can make the right choice for themselves.”
Somewhere, the siren song of gaslighting plays.
Not only are these guys mind readers, but they happen to know what’s best for you, and it involves fucking them. This is a coincidence.

In bitching about how ‘stupid’ women are, they’re proving they aren’t nice.

You aren’t entitled to Miss Perfect. Nobody is entitled to another person.