The beta thing is nice but no power. Nice is not a choice.
The cuck thing is power but no character. The wrong choice.
For a definition of coarse or boorish, picture an American rapper at a club. They are opposites. Birds of a feather flock together. However, cheap people will not let classy people alone, they constantly try to invade that space too.
The entitlement is a big reason they are vulgar.
This is not ambition aka the American Dream, it is a sense of being owed by other people for behaving decently or normally.
e.g. the beta expects everyone to like him because he pretends to like them, the creep expects a woman to sleep with him because he did her the honour of noticing her, the cuck expects social approval for selling you out with a smile.
These people are insufferable boors. All three of those have suppressed anger, rationalizing bad decisions.
This man in the video is more alpha than anyone insecure enough to write about it at length.
You do your own thing yes, but you needn’t be obnoxious about it.
…”But when you speak of such gentility as is descended from ancient wealth–so that you knights should therefore would be gentlemen of breeding–such arrogance is not worth a hen. Look who is always most virtuous, openly and secretly, and most inclines to do what gentle deeds he can; take him for the gentlest man….
For though all their heritage of our ancestors, by reason of which we claim high rank, may descend to us, yet they cannot at all bequeath to any of us their virtuous living, which made them to be called gentle men and to bid us follow to them and do in like manner….
“Here you may well see how nobility hangs not from ancient possessions, since people do not always perform its works, as does the fire, according to its nature. For, God knows, one may often see a lord’s son do vicious and shameful deeds; and he who wishes to be esteemed for his gentility because he was born of a noble house and had virtuous and noble ancestors, and yet himselfwill not perform the deeds of gentility nor follow after his gentle ancestor who is dead, he is not gentle, even if he is a duke or an earl; for base and sinful deeds make a commoner. For gentility then would be nothing but renown of your ancestors for their high worthiness, which is something that has nothing to do with you….
“Think how noble was that Tullius Hostilius, as Valerius tells, who rose out of poverty to high nobility. Read Seneca, and Boethius as well; there you shall see expressly that he who does noble deeds is noble. And therefore, dear husband, I conclude in this way: albeit my ancestors were untutored, yet may the high God–and so I hope–grant me grace to live virtuously. Then I am noble, when I begin to live virtuously and to abandon evil….
Whoever keeps himself content with his poverty, I count as rich, even if he does not have not a shirt! He who covets is a poor creature, for he wishes to have that which is not within his power. But he who has nothing, nor covets things, is rich, albeit you count him as only a serving-lad…
“Now you say I am old and foul: then have no fear that you will be a cuckold. For ugliness and age, upon my life, are great wardens over chastity. But nevertheless, since I know your delight, I shall fulfill your appetite….
“Choose,” she said, “one of these two things: to have me foul and old until I die, and to you a true, humble wife, never in all my days displeasing you; or else to have me young and beautiful, and take your chance on how many visits there will be to your house–or perhaps to some other place–which will be for my sake. Now choose yourself which one you will have.”….
They tiptoe around using the correct word: honour.
No love without trust. There needs to be a level of honesty and valour (romantic behaviours, acting like the man without expectation and loving it, yes, those evil gender roles feminists have nightmares about!)
It’s an open secret that men love being chivalrous and romantic, it gives them a sense of purpose and status.
The ones who bitch about being expected to demonstrate sex-typical behaviours are perpetually single for good reason…. rejects.
What trustworthiness looks like in dating and mating is this: You are who you say you are and you do what you say you are going to do. It’s about reliability, accountability, and showing up just as you are (but with good hygiene). Why is trustworthiness so important? Why is this the quality that makes a woman’s heart soar? Think about it. Throughout history, a woman’s safety and well-being, as well as that of her children, have been dependent on her parents’ trustworthiness.
Acting like a man, a marker of maturity.
Now, why would this be evolutionally selected for?
The so-called redpills fall deathly silent … again… when the facts don’t match up to their delusions. The promiscuous believe the MSM and think they’re the majority, when in fact, they’re between 10-20% according to most estimates, and evolutionary dead-ends, for the most part.
Allowing a woman your seat was a kind gesture because it made the likelihood of her fainting due to her corset considerably less. If you’re not wearing a corset, don’t expect a seat.
Second, gentlemen acted the part around ladies. A lady denied a seat would keep quiet and sweet about it. There is a lack of entitlement displayed demonstrating the right to better treatment. As a choice, not an enforced rule.