Most women don’t.
That’s normal. We aren’t wired that way. It’s funny how the same men saying “sex differences!” until the cows come home then try and hold women to hyper-masculine standards (porn addict) of sexuality and game-ness. It’s chemically impossible, you’d need to find a tranny for that, someone medically male.
Plenty of healthy women just feel awkward when speaking to a stranger on any condition, let alone one who clearly doesn’t care about your rights (including to be left alone), who you are and just wants the dreaded One Thing.
This person is nobody and nothing (to us), yet the entitlement prevails.
It’s this entitlement, bolstered by power over the target or not, that everyone is objecting to. It’s so simple a child could understand. Other people’s bodies do not belong to you. You don’t get to touch them. That’s it.
It isn’t friendly, friends aren’t physically tactile.
I come from a country where people rehearse what they’ll say on the phone to the bank and talk about the weather with an over-friendly cashier just to get through it. This is normal, strangers shouldn’t be too agreeable with each other, that’s an r-selected trait to love ‘meeting’ new people and very dangerous for the person.
Most of us have our head screwed on straighter. We can’t win, we try to minimize the risk of being a victim (it’s never zero, for anyone) and we’re still insulted by people who think their desires over-ride your rights. Here in Britain we just think – ugh, rude. It’s typical American crassness. You just don’t comment on a person’s physical appearance until you’re very close friends, sometimes not even then.
Americans keep expecting everyone should be as gregarious as a playboy bunny at a sex convention. 1. Fuck you, America. 2. That’s never, ever going to happen.
Sexual attention is an insult, to most people, in most of the world.
It insinuates they’d be low enough to accept advances.
A basic right is to be respected, shown by leaving them alone. Property rights start with the body. This isn’t Eve Teasing, you aren’t a child touching a bauble because you like the look of it. More adults need to exercise impulse control. Men used to be pioneers at self-control, and now look what porn has done to you, absolutely ruined.
You see, porn has absolutely brainwashed men in one way clearly – porn stars can never say no.
Bear in mind, they must be paid to surrender that right, with contracts and terms.
Healthy women are shy and retiring, in general. This is a good thing, a social good, and one of those things the stupid men complaining about MeToo are completely missing – feminine women don’t like being stalked. They should feel safer, at work or walking down the street, like a man shouldn’t be followed by a gang down an alley.
The broken ones are saying things like
Millet, 69, whose bestselling 2002 memoir The Sexual Life of Catherine Mdetailed how she “loves to suck men’s cocks” and enjoyed taking it in every orifice during orgies involving up to 150 people, had previously and reliably provoked the nation last month when she said she “really regretted not having been raped because I could have shown that you get over it.”
Serious question: is it possible to rape someone who never says No?
Men need to stop assuming any woman is ‘up for it’ – look at the stats, sluts are a minority. It is offensive because we have reputation laws too. When do we bring back the gigantic hat pins to stab these bastards?
Sure, I propose we give women guns and a right to defend themselves.
Newspapers across the country began reporting similar encounters with “mashers,” period slang for lecherous or predatory men (defined more delicately in Theodore Dreiser’s Sister Carrie as “one whose dress or manners are calculated to elicit the admiration of susceptible young women”). A New York City housewife fended off a man who brushed up against her
a fetish called frottage
on a crowded Columbus Avenue streetcar and asked if he might “see her home.” A Chicago showgirl, bothered by a masher’s “insulting questions,” beat him in the face with her umbrella until he staggered away.
Yes, give everyone a right to defend themselves. See what happens.
Legalize pepper spray at least. Any man who complains is obviously a sex pest.
Conflating verbal abuse with chatting is like confusing using a knife on a roast dinner with serial killing, it’s a blatant false equivalence and justifies the abusers, who always pretend to be rainbows and pure intentions. We have just as much sympathy for male victims but you’ll notice, like most sexual crimes, the perps tend to be male (there’s your red pill, shove it) and since most men are statistically straight, most victims of predators are female. That still isn’t the woman’s fault, stop blaming Mommy.
Nobody is questioning the male on male homicide data so denialism of harassment is backward.
We’re the first generation to try and do it. Slutty people (r-types) have a pathologically aggressive response to being told No, it’s their damage (hypofrontality). Like a toddler, narcissistic rage tends to get them what they want, if society permits it. Society has done nothing for too long, else Rotherham and the like would never have happened. Society must either shame this (now un-PC to shame anything) unhealthy hypersexuality or ban certain behaviours (as they used to be, pre-Sexual Revolution) like the bobby chasing down a ruffian with his baton for shouting at (cat-calling) ladies on bikes; one time, one of them beat the guy who wouldn’t stop pawing at her with an umbrella, I read (this was considered self-defense, and defending her own honour). Update: not the one I linked to. Honour-defending is coming back in, like it or not, especially online. Those are the only options and you brought it on yourselves, these aggressive child-like people can’t be trusted to socialize like responsible adults. You shouldn’t be forced to chase down strangers in the street, you aren’t invited to the same social gatherings because you can’t compete in their league, just accept it and know your place. There’s a clear class thing going on here too. Nobody talks about it.
Without religion, there’s no public etiquette enforceable anymore and until we can go back to shaming and stigmatizing antisocial people, there will be more public scrutiny and hashtags. For civil balance, there has to be, else there will be more unrest.
Shame on you, CD. Most women are not prostitutes like you.
If a man won’t take disinterest as final, we have laws written up on this for a reason. They’re closely related to begging laws,also a crime. You have a right to be left alone and respected in your space, in public. That is a human right.
I will point out white countries never had this pervasive harassment problem until we imported various non-whites who think you’re the rude one for not responding to their holler asking what dat mouth do.
Sort that out if you want women to dress nicer as a group, right now we’re trying to minimize ourselves as a target overall, with androgyny. It’s like Clark Kent’s glasses, which we also nicked.
A person who might pen you in or hit you for ignoring them (there are videos online) has no place in the First World. Savages cannot be civilized.