Tiger Mom hypergamy + Poland sub-fertility

Poland stuff is at the end.

That was the deal. Asians aren’t Christians, they lack the altruism genes.

For richer, for poorer is an idea.

Plus, if you marry down economically for looks (hypergamy) then you entered a financial contract on the basis of your starting income. When it dips, her looks don’t change but suddenly you provide less value (plus Asian princess syndrome social shame, saving face stigma pressure to leave) so she’ll retract her end and cash out before you go completely bust. Collectivists are not individualists. They value what you give, not family ties. They ghost their own blood relations.

The pretend naivete is most insulting. The focus is not husband (like Christianity) but kids. Guy’s a glorified sperm donor, they don’t actually respect you (why the aged Asian shrew henpecking her husband and beating kids with a shoe is infamous) it’s all about looking the part (communal narcissism).

Stupid beta doesn’t know she planned her exit, like timing the market.

She wanted little meal ticket to take back to Japan.

Bear in mind, mix Asian/White marriages have higher rates of domestic abuse (it could come from her) but also divorce, compared to Asian/Asian, so you couldn’t do better.

“Non-confrontational” – passive-aggressive

“kept to herself” – hated you

“misunderstandings with parents” – hated the people with your best interests at heart, attempt to isolate you from them (she related to Jolie?)

“she viewed explanations as arguments” – so…. Asian, culturally. They just repeat bullshit until you cave. Then they fake-out walking away only to come back a few times. The only thing most of them don’t do is stamp their feet. They’re not used to being told “No”. Narcs view normal boundaries e.g. don’t shout in my ear, as offensive to them.

“if I took an hour a day to explain” – she isn’t that stupid, nobody is

“she avoided it” stonewalling, another Asian specialty, again they freeze out relatives with bad reputation socially for trivial or even good reasons like individuality or not paying the family leech

Someone please school the Asian betas, this is absurd.

“I knew this, I specifically told her – you cannot save up your anger” it’s called resentment and it’s the biggest predictor of divorce, don’t marry a spiteful bitch, however nice the mask beforehand

Well, she got her revenge, didn’t she?

Seriously though I’m on his side. Anyone writing a special course on spotting Dark Triad in Asian women would make billions off that market. They fake their femininity until hubby looks insecure, then like any predator they strike to draw first blood. Narcs, for example, always assume you’ll betray them. She wasn’t expecting to die with him, hence withdrawing from his family, keeping distance so they had no info on her or emotional rapport.

Guy was played.

She married millionaire, then made bank. Gold digger.

He tolerated her passivity as femininity, probably, meaning he would later allow her to do a runner and never combat divorce proceedings. She knew this. She tested him for weakness for YEARS.

He learned nothing, he’s still talking about “initial attraction”. That excitement is mutually exclusive to compatibility. The fun ones are always crazy. Never fuck anyone crazier than you. The attraction is a bait, an act, totally a facade, their persona when you meet is FAKE as Bella Hadid’s tits. They mirror you and mould into your perfect One. BPDs and HPDs go further with cheating tests (while cheating themselves to see if you’re jealous), sadistic punishments and all sorts.

Personality disorder people are attractive in the same way as standing at a cliff edge- because of your death drive, intrigued by DANGER. Stop crossing the wires, guys! Are they: fascinating, individually, or fucked-up, mentally? Critical difference.

This is my PSA to advice I’d give male relatives, I’m in no danger zone and see a very different side to these women (Mean Girls). There’s no mask because there’s no gain from a woman (competition), it’s the real spite up front.

They isolate women for professional reasons, men for personal gain.

I’ve missed out of tons of opportunities because some bitch randomly hated me. I want you to thwart them. Women have no avenue. At least don’t be a chump?

He goes on about communication but did NONE of that himself. He still married her. He allowed her to be non-cooperative then married her.

“We would just – have fun”

Good-time girls make great ex-wives….

“if we thought there was anything we didn’t understand about the other person we just – ignored that stuff”

all his talk about communication was bullshit, then

that’s not a wife material you propose to, that’s an acquaintance you fuck

you don’t even do that to friends, but an awkward colleague – no emotional intimacy

deep down, he sensed they weren’t compatible, spiritually, amazing how men think with their dick

almost like you’re meant to make this decision with a clearer…. head

“If you understand the core of a person, that is always there”

but you just said-

you married a stranger you fuckwit

Narcissists don’t HAVE a core, either! Hollow people exist! Soulless people exist! People dead on the inside capable of faking it…. exist!

This gentlemen, is why men had arranged marriages. Your parents could see this shit a mile off and head off your impaired dick brain disorder.

The more he talks, the more I wanna punch him. He’s so vapid.

“If you marry for social status or appearance” – there’s some self-awareness there, scratching to get out!

ALAS NO.

He still thinks she has a core…. despite still not knowing it…

There’s nothing to know, idiot.

I’ve gone on dates with this kind of guy (one date, each) in the past because they actually got scared when a woman had emotional intelligence enough to express her dark side openly. They’d be scared of the girl who can clearly, politely communicate they’re annoyed by something but later you see them with a series of crazy bitches (their words, after) who put on the nice airhead act only to be rotten in reality and it’s like… wow. Actually they kinda deserve it. Women are not sugar and spice, get it through your thick skull, this isn’t an Austen novel. If a woman isn’t saying it, she’s thinking it …and that’s VERY dangerous – to you. Because rest assured, the talkative sex (a myth but OK) has a REASON for not voicing it – and that’s usually predatory.

Dating is meant to filter out bad matches early as possible. If you want fake, you get fake. With fake longevity.

Like, how do they expect a marriage should work? You never disagree? You can’t have an adult conversation? You can’t voice frustrations with anything, personally or politically? Do they think women knit away their anger? Does that sound healthy compared to a productive, sometimes fun talk? Vive la difference can be attractive. If they want a clone without the dick, they’re too insecure to marry anyone. Did they never learn the value of confrontation as a child? It teaches compromise. It establishes and protects boundaries, it respects both parties. You need to learn how to argue to fight your corner. Anger isn’t a bad emotion per se, it’s vital for survival. Do they want a codependent or apathetic ninny? Would she stand by them or get weak and panic when times get tough? They always do over decades. Have they ever spoken to successful, long-married couples? No.

Because if they did it’s about loyalty and that seems ferocious, sometimes. Passion isn’t for weaklings.

Marriage is the union of two individuals. You are not a jigsaw piece. Conflict happens. That’s why you state a vow publicly that you stand together and ENDURE the conflict.

A person who thinks you’re worth the argument will work on the marriage. This waifu clearly had no investment in him emotionally, she was probably incapable of it with any man – best to learn that early on? Can they securely attach? Men and women don’t do that lightly. Ya gotta earn it.

She literally pouted and hid like a small infant. He left her alone to mope like a dog, so he’s thick too. You can’t marry that and logically expect her to magically mature! She was emotionally retarded! Literally! That doesn’t just Go Away with pressure!

The why can’t girls be honest lot run when regular women are…. into the arms of… LIARS!

That’s…. that’s what happens. Good riddance if the idiots and the bitches leave the dating pool, actually. Maybe I shouldn’t observe, but I’ve heard the same from guys about idiot cousins, bitchy sisters etc.

The passive strategy (ghosting emotionally, stonewalling) is common among these women because with every interaction you might see their tactics, hear a word that sounds off-key or see a mask slip. They’re minimizing exposure to the prey while timing the attack.

Graham is earlier on in the same cycle. Loner guy openly brags he’s a millionaire and BOOM magically meets his soulmate…. sure. Sure you did.

Marry her too. Kids. The works. ….Morons. She’s mirroring you and your delusions of independence.

It’s like that pure cringe Talulah Riley video that was basically a meme, until the vid was taken down (and later re-posted) – the one in the kitchen where she slipped up and mask-slipped, saying she’d have married anyone who proposed quickly.

His feels were hurt but watch her eyes and sudden awkwardness. You can see the “I fucked up, damage control” in her face as she blinks heavily, face gets all twitchy, body all stiff, as she tries to decide what her face SHOULD look like and what her tone of voice SHOULD be and what line she SHOULD say to make him think she’s capable of empathy again.

IT’S THE SAME SHIT.

MEN WHY. 

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1) Complains about being his wife and dealing with his kids (wouldn’t wish taking care of them on her worst enemy)

2) Said she would have accepted a proposal from anybody

3) Says her parents were traumatized by “This whole experience”

4) Talks about how she’s thought of leaving him many times

MANOSPHERE TEACHES YOU NONE OF THIS SHIT. It isn’t even race-specific although they do vary the MO somewhat according to stereotype. This makes it easier to convince you of things, like to trust them.

I love how the next clip they cut to is his sportscar and she gets a ton of presents in a tower of boxes. Wow. The video editor was answering the reason she stayed with him with visual storytelling, it was Python-esque.

I treasure it. Unsung hero.

SPOT THE FAKE FEMININITY, PLEASE. The fewer crazy bitch divorce cases I hear about, the better.

e.g. all 4 explained:

previously claimed in an interview she wanted ten kids, balks and scoffs contemptuously, glares at and avoids five

soulmate mirroring ops, slips with the anybody (who’s a billionaire) entitlement

sides with her parents over him and Them… while engaged, in lovey dopamine phase?

frequent escapist fantasies…. during key pair bonding and prime attachment time

Get the body language youtuber to study this video, seriously.

A woman with empathy says

How did she say all those stuff in front of his face like that….

She doesn’t respect him. He’s a middle-aged guy trying to marry a lingerie model. Age gap women never really respect the old coot. Open contempt. He’s mentally messed-up as she is and he’s fair game since he’s a perv, she knows he deserves it (sociopath logic). He’s leaving the mother of his children, why would she respect him?

WHY do you think Cinderella Effect is a STUDIED phenomena?

Women don’t want another woman’s kids, they’re considered like bastards. They want their own to come first. A woman interested in Stepmother is probably dangerous.

No prizes for guessing how many kids they have together now. [zero]

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how blind is this guy its clearly a thot

Jewish thot. They age… poorly. Even with the surgical interventions.

Her eyes are practically shrinking into her skull like Sid from Ice Age but men look at T/A so …. okay. She’s aged like Natalie Portman but two decades early. Now she leaks gossip about the singer to websites to force them to break up so he’ll marry her again. Common MO with this type. Gossip manufacture and leakage. The call is coming from inside the house!

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That’s what happens when you date someone purely on looks who has a shit personality. Ask yourself if you weren’t rich would she still be with you, if the answer is no then it’s time to move on.

Looks or the fact she’s a model version of your ex to parade around as an upgrade and you asked her to dye her hair to match? Saving face to the ex cost him to lose it eventually.

Nobody in London rated her as a model. Or an actress, for that matter. Cunty personality and no talent. With all his influence she got a smirk role in a Thor film. It was hilarious. She’s like a Hollywood 4. Everyone who knew her from her many schools (she wanted to move) was pissing themselves.

Learn the type, men. Study it like a samurai. Jumped-up public schoolgirl.

1:22 for the OOPS face, look in HD.

Reaches out to touch his arm, sexual distraction. Make him believe her lie more as she arse-covers. Feminine wiles are fine but get a bad rap when used deceitfully. You’re meant to use them in cooperation as a married couple. He is angry and shouts at the kids and you talk him down, that stuff.

For when the vid is taken down, educational purposes, SLOW-MO.

Okay or just that clip, it’s like a car crash anyway. It seems slow-mo.

A vital part of protecting marriage is cutting off the gold diggers.

The manosphere seems to have missed this part, assuming gold diggers stick around. No. You can’t “alpha frame” them into tolerating you.

Listen to Graham’s Pollyanna optimism and never sound like that.

Candy comments

Living with the parents but telling your wife dont interact with them? Stevie Wonder could see that divorce coming.

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why tf were they still living with controlling parents?! youre married, get a house. im positive she left cause he didnt want to move out of his parents place

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This is disgusting. We don’t know her side. And this guy seems like a true narcissist. I’ve seen his other video. The “millionaire” buys his wife a $20 gift and takes her to the same restaurant when she was not happy. The guy desreves a wakeup fist.

I think they’re both narcissists.

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Japanese (both male and female) tend to avoid confrontation at all costs, while build up anger and resentment and having a difficulty of expressing their thought logically. For her, going back to Japan with a son to raise with her parents and in familiar environment seems no brainer. It is selfish decision though, by doing so gradually influence the son to be and think more like her. In Japan, it is very common that “ex-husband is ex-father”, hardly keep any contact with his kids, either by him or her or mutual. It’s unhealthy for the child but neither sides willing or capable to have a conversation to raise their kids together as an adult, in my opinion.

That’s Asian in general.

He didn’t say about missing the kid, there’s something mentally wrong with him.

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I changed when I went from being unemployed, to getting a job — we stopped traveling so much. My ex changed when we had a child. In Japanese culture, the woman stops being a wife and becomes a selfless mother at that point. (That’s my perception at least) and its’ believed there is honor in that. I tend to think a good mother should demonstrate love to her husband to teach family values.

It’s believed? That’s the culture you married.

He doesn’t tend to think at all. Wow.

I never forced her to live there, she agreed to. Her belief that with money we could move out immediately caused issues, because we were trying to buy a house and that takes time to close. We started bidding on any random house haphazardly (even burned down houses that would cost a ton to rebuild) because we were becoming desperate. And housing in the Bay Area is so competitive we lost all of our bids.

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Clearly he paid more attention to he’s job/YouTube than his wife… obvious result

He could be a psychopath. It’s possible. Still, there was deception in there somewhere although…. why sign? Did she have proof of abuse? She isn’t monetizing it.

If you won’t put the spouse above your vanity and career then don’t get married. Goes for men too. No “boys”, the loyalty is to family first or it will break down, eventually. Boys leave, your wife and kids are by your death bed.

Then again, Asia has a ton of hypergamy at the moment. In the West it ended in the 20th century, when studied.

They say when the earner loses money, divorce occurs. Cashing out.

Hypergamy and materialism of both sexes is reducing birth rates.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographic_transition

This is normal if r-types are shifting from r.

Between 1750 and 1975 England experienced the transition from high levels of both mortality and fertility, to low levels. A major factor was the sharp decline in the death rate due to infectious diseases, which has fallen from about 11 per 1,000 to less than 1 per 1,000. By contrast, the death rate from other causes was 12 per 1,000 in 1850 and has not declined markedly. The agricultural revolution and the development of transport, initiated by the construction of canals, led to greater availability of food and coal, and enabled the Industrial Revolution to improve the standard of living. Scientific discoveries and medical breakthroughs did not, in general, contribute importantly to the early major decline in infectious disease mortality.”

Atheists lie about that too.

But I’m sure STDs are a hidden factor in Asian infertility, also.

wikipedia generally: “In some countries the population is declining, especially in Eastern Europe, mainly due to low fertility rates, high death rates and emigration.”

Maybe selling their nubile women to cartels as blonde rape victims or sending them to work in brothels doesn’t help.

” Some Western Europe countries might also experience population decline.[22]

So we’re fine, contextually, Eastern Europe is screwed. They rely on large families for various cultural reasons. It keep their economy afloat.

e.g.

http://www.msp.gov.pl/en/polish-economy/economic-news/6146,Poland-facing-risk-of-labor-force-deficit-in-2015.html

They’re not family-oriented AT ALL.

Poland – a country with a fertility rate lower than China

“Poland has a very low fertility rate, lower than the majority of European countries. There is a clear cultural difference – not so much in the level of wealth, but in the quality of life.”

Yeah gotta pay that Sky TV bill on UK welfare sent abroad (really).

“In most of the other countries of Central and Eastern Europe which once belonged to this group, the fertility rate was lower than in the countries of Western and Southern Europe in this group”

“In addition, 22 per cent simply do not want to have a child.”

Actual Polish women, not propaganda you see on Youtube.

“According to the Social Diagnosis for 2015, some 2 million people could have a child, but are prevented from that, mainly by material conditions and the lack of support in childcare. For the most affluent people, the real issue lies not in genuine financial scarcity, but in aspirations and the desire to ensure a sufficiently high standard of living for the children.”

Without the national IQ to produce value and real wealth, so welfare. Gibs.

https://data.oecd.org/pop/young-population.htm#indicator-chart

Oh yeah, their economy’s gonna be great.

Human history was polyandry

Most women got their top choice. If a woman has her pick of the men, that’s polyandry.

https://www.theguardian.com/science/2014/sep/24/women-men-dna-human-gene-pool

So, sure, genetically polygamy has a long history… most men would hate that system though.

But eggs (and the carrier) are expensive, sperm is worthless.

SEXUAL SELECTION IS EUGENIC.

That is not a bad thing. Selecting out the weak are the ones whose offspring wouldn’t have survived long anyway. Humanity would’ve died out if they didn’t choose the healthy and civilized.

By low IQ alone, a sizable number of men should be rejected.

Insufficient men existed genetically for so-called hypergamy, a marriage detail of the 20th century where rich men preferred beauty in women (regardless of background, given the finite supply in their own class, they had to marry down) which has NOT continued into this one (aka not how evolution works). The social phenomena of hypergamy is why male sexual selection fails, it’s dysgenic, they fuck down and over generations, ruin their bloodline because they don’t have any decent standards (dating studies reinforce this). They prefer a pair of marginally nicer tits over quality descendants (see IQ/class studies, regression to the mean) who actually continue to breed (so their investment was not wasted).

To this day, white women are least likely to miscegenate, and yet men, knowing the ruin that follows, are somehow more open (sexually desperate) to the prospect. This is why women are the prudent, selecting sex, the peahens assessing the tail feathers. It’s the only system that works intergenerationally.

Monogamy is still the best course in my opinion (or look at the Third Worlds with too many men and not enough war falling into sewer-exploding chaos), the way humans have evolved in civilization (not like other primates) and it’s definitely the best course for men.

You know, mathematically.

Men save time picking a good woman, impressing a vast sample size of ONE and then mate guarding. Their instincts arise from ancestors’ success with this. Parental attachment becomes secure and that leads to stable child development e.g. later menarche, and then improves odds of grandchildren, etc… etc.

[Being a sterile manwhore means nothing in evolution.]

This isn’t about man feelings, thank you. It’s as impersonal as genetics.

From here on out, no normie filter.

You have been warned.

Much is written by foolish men on the longer technical male fertility window, omitting quality studies, but what they fail to notice is how the vast majority of men would’ve been dead by middle age (mid-30s) thanks to rites of passage, crime, war and disease. The best quality men had to be rewarded for surviving somehow.

They bring up wolf packs (one, monogamous alpha pair) and lion prides (most males are dead) without the slightest glimmer of self-awareness.

EVOLUTION IS A HIERARCHY, IDJITS.

The cuck thing intrigued women because it seemed like quality men were getting their act together by refusing to support the weak ones any longer, letting the entitled leeches of society e.g. deadbeats, shrivel up without the taxpayer teat. It’s more a promise. Why did women vote for Trump? ACTION.

Hillary wanted to import weak, cowardly men to flood their already swelling domestic angry ranks of would-be rapists and murderers.

Women didn’t vote for her. Shocker.

https://disenchantedscholar.wordpress.com/2018/12/17/americas-stop-hitting-yourself/

“If I hated American men and wanted their legacy to die out, I’d convince them women are like the Jewish Lilith and never to marry or have kids (both of which extend male lifespan and joy).”

Anyone who falls for it deserves to die out.

Women didn’t talk about #killallmen because, well, we kill most of them by genetic suicide anyway. What’s there to say?

Why was this such a huge hit? Listen.

He didn’t think she was good enough, so she rejects him. Now he’s alone.

She wanted to invest, he didn’t. Now he can’t find equivalent offers.

What was she supposed to do, sit around and pine while her ovaries dried up? He had at least three years! That’s three decades in ovary time! Shit or get off the pot, man.

It’s like passing up on a Ferrari because it’s the wrong colour. Men are not passive.

[Also why fronting and negging do not work. Sir, there is a LINE. Please move over so the next guy can talk. You see this in clubs.]

Men get confused since women have options – it’s like offering BBQ to a vegan or a Prius to a Trump supporter, we don’t want those options.

We’d rather have NOTHING.

What’s worse for men – there’s no such thing as “alpha” or there is, and you aren’t one?

So why don’t women talk about it?

We do, you don’t hear it.

At no point did Jesus say “and thus every man is entitled to a waifu” but a lot of men heard it.

The perfect woman of proverbs 31 wears purple silks to make her husband look good but they point to the vain line in another section about pearl braids their husband can’t afford. The problem there isn’t jewelry and fashion, it’s keeping up with the Joneses instead of being a good wife. If you can be a good wife first, roll on the pearls.

Even under so-called polygyny, the women get to choose to marry – the best man, rejecting N-1 of males.

Again, basic maths.

However, this was in there:

I’m sure they forgot.

To be friendzoned, you must actually be friends.

Most people are acquaintances.

Hey guys, I am very smart for saying this but – water is wet?

Why are misogynists so common and misandrists so rare?

To this day, I haven’t seen a misandrist go on a murder spree.

Thousands of years and counting. They have cause, look at crime stats.

What are they doing in revenge? You don’t see a future together? Funny, so does she.

Imagine if women sent an influx of vag pics to Milo. It looks like an audition.

Why do we ‘slut shame’? Fine, I’ll humour you. They don’t choose good men, allow bad behaviour that inconveniences everyone and add shit to the gene pool. Nobody wants shit in their pool.

You let the men think they run everything while killing off the ones who disrespect you.

And that’s why you are here.

The top segment of men support this, by the way, roll on Patriarchy, time of oddly fatal male labour? Abortion only for rape babies? Lots and lots of ground war? Why did Marx point out class war as crushing men? Men are their own worst enemy.

Try to deny it to yourself with each passing year. Women win, just accept it and maybe you can share in it.

Why do “male feminists” turn out to be secretly misogynist the whole time?
Why do they have a reputation for rejection?

This is why weaker men wanted to prevent women from deciding for themselves who to marry.

Evolution is brutal and cannot abide weakness. Mother Nature.

Your ancestors were the least misogynistic of the bunch, it’s selective breeding like domesticating dogs. And you think, to keep women in line and producing for society, being the exception will help you? Ask Elliot how that went. Product of hypergamy Elliot. Angry, mongrel Elliot, who blamed women instead of his father who didn’t want a white son. Cannon fodder in saner times. Not heir material. Why did he preferentially stab Asian males?

Misogynists hate women – but they hate men even more. Most psychopaths are misogynists, most psychopaths are men, most homicide victims are….. ?

Did ya guess? It’s men. If only there were a clever way for nature to resolve this problem. To produce a… civilization?

They don’t become crazy because they’re bachelors, they are bachelors because they are crazy.

If women are crazy, why want them?

As mentioned here and elsewhere, misogyny is a known trait of the inferior male.

https://disenchantedscholar.wordpress.com/2017/07/24/link-inferiority-the-opposite-of-genius/

Good men don’t despise femininity. Rich people don’t hate the banks.

If you had to choose a man to invest in, would you choose a protector or abuser?

Good men use the death penalty to remove the scum from the gene pool, women use passivity with not a drop of blood spilled and each generation progressively more peaceful. Until the weak men imported more dregs out of spite. What do they salivate over? Men being killed in terror attacks, no valor and women being raped, no choice.

That is the omega.

Omega females want pretty women to have ugly, stupid or mud babies. You can’t be out-competed by a better bloodline that doesn’t exist. Again, spite is evil. Wrath is a deadly sin.

That picture needs two fewer dogs and two more children. Ban pets and the white birth rate would skyrocket.

Remember, Muslims hate dogs? Pattern recognition is a skill.

Why in times of war do women say of men in praise “he was a good man, he didn’t deserve to die”, what does that imply?

No, Peterson, no

I tried watching some basic videos I’d never normally click on as a test.
Topics I knew from reading and speaking to experts.
This was the average level of offender. Little scientism neat stories there.

Raises no eyebrows with the Pitbull IQ host who talks too much.

LISTEN AND BELIEVE.

ANYTHING I LIKE IS EVOLUTION.

What is free will, the law or the naturalistic fallacy?

This is him without prep, he only sounds smart when he’s prepared for the conversations.

Jordan Peterson either thinks he’s smarter than he is (read more) or he’s trolling internet intellectuals for shekels, knowing they won’t look it up because who cares about the truth? I bet 2.

He is not an evobio guy, you’d be better off asking Richard Dawkins!
Someone, on Twitter! Please!

The men wouldn’t have been allowed close enough to GET rejected.
Society invented courting and bachelorhood to keep order, once all males were allowed to survive for labour.

Hypergamy doesn’t even mean what these people think, it’s a marriage construct. Nothing to do with sex, especially sterile sex. Biology of fertility and children (evolution) doesn’t apply to the infertile or sterile. STDs don’t apply to monks for the same reason. Where do they get it???

Marriage construct because marriage is how you access resources? Duh?

We have twice as many female ancestors because 1. they did less stupid things, 2. they were more connected to tribe, 3. no intersexual competition that ends in death, 4. no survival based rite of passage (throwing them out when of age) and 5. no need to display to the opposite sex. Most men would have died beforehand or been killed in the attempt to access them long before social rejection was possible. Tribes were NOT PC. There was NO benefit of the doubt, especially for a stranger trying to access the nubile, do not be dense. Men were known to be rapists and that is why rape developed as a strategy, the losers who wouldn’t be permitted mating opportunities any other way. The contempt for everyone in that. Our disgust is a wholesale rejection of our being.

This age is incredibly eugenic because the rapist types are usually sterile/frigid/impotent, pick a term, the kids don’t breed/are aborted or the woman is on the Pill. This is the most eugenic time period in living memory, and in all of human history. It’s a cleansing. Trust Malthus to take out the trash that appears successful in false conditions (socialism). Liberals aren’t even breeding, smart ones!

He’ll never ever talk about that. He would drag his raw balls over broken glass first.

Women would get a say, but more the parents. It wasn’t just the father. Brothers might take the father’s place, say, for a fight, but the mother held sway over the brothers. Experience and blood connection counted.

Mother Nature is a eugenicist. It’s about quality and survival.

Human genocide and rape after war aren’t accounted for either, despite occurring in chimps so he does know, I can assure you. Plenty of men are poor quality, stop stroking their cock Peterson. We aren’t “meant to” evolve for anything, ask JF, a biologist. It’s such a romantic view? What a strawman. Courtly love is recent you dumb fuck? Like I could disprove that with wikipedia, it’s mostly a French thing too, what, did nobody else evolve? Was the memo to the whole species written in Frog?

The sneaky fucker thing is rape because they have to present themselves dishonestly, knowing their poor quality. They want to force acceptance. You’ll always have the stupid ones as exception thinking it’s about body language or some shit like “alpha dominance” *cough* but even they know to hide, it’s instinct and hardly a social thing, they would sneak into the tribe once the real men were away hunting and the females were vulnerable. They rarely interacted with the men. They’d also be deadbeats after any rape, classic r-type. A male just wanting sex and no investment is not viable, in society, to society, to women or in biology.

This is painful to watch.

Mammals are different. Harlow’s monkeys?

Taking a real thing, interesting and twisting it into shit. It’s like modern art with science. I hope you’re not paying this man.

Of course heroes exist but they hardly bred more than average, Genghis Khan was a rapist. This is known. The shitty males weren’t romancing themselves with stories, what are you on, Jordan? What are you smoking?

We tell stories about bad people far more than good ones. Fairy tales? Old ones?

Beta male has three meanings

  1. shit internet one, means nothing. Used here.
  2. Evobio, deference but not sexual, social with sometimes sexual outcomes, it’s seen in the military and chosen, earned. Royalty’s ancestors were at some point battle victors.
  3. Sexual attractiveness, subpar but chosen nonetheless. This is sometimes used to refer to parents, a little inaccurately. Evolutionally, breeders win. All parents are in the running for alpha but it’s based on quality. Beta bux is not true, as I’ve linked to studies before. Parental Investment shows that doting fathers have better odds than the sneaky fuckers who call themselves alpha but are truly deadbeats. You could relate it to masculinity but it isn’t bravado or aggression, those are low class status signals to get attention. Masculinity has always been the Patriarch, the father figure who stays and is a good man. Greece fell because Zeus fucked around, pagans are scrubbers.

Male feminists (SJWs) have many issues, I cannot list them all here.

They hate themselves, it needn’t be about the women, that’s why they often wanna become women. Trying to gain trust based on lies is the act of a sexual predator, which most douchebags viewing this would call alpha “game” (the game is lying) because they believe all the tropes about cavemen in cartoons, when rapists were brained with a rock (yes, I agree, let’s do that again). You are not smarter than them larping Johnny Bravo. Did anyone respect him?

Men sluttier than women

Nobody is ‘lying’ either. Learn to read the research, not the commentary feed from some butthurt bloke. The lie scales are applied to both sexes (independent variables) in a given study. That is how they are constructed, literally. For comparison’s sake aka the study, it holds.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/sexual-health-and-advice/8958520/Average-man-has-9-sexual-partners-in-lifetime-women-have-4.html

Why the discrepancy? you wisely ask.

There are fewer female sluts than male, but they put out a lot more per…. ahem, head.

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Result? Men gain more ‘experience’, to put it politely.

Now, a little theory…

Remember, this studies frequency of switching. The cause can be traced back via IV to frequency of sex acts too, as the two variables are intertwined (men and women). Otherwise, logically, and sexual congress requiring one male and one female, you would expect even results e.g. men 5, women 5. Men are switching between more women, as you can see from their mean, but they are switching among the same pool of women, necessarily, whereas the total of females is much lower. The average female switches partner less, yes, but what type is the average woman? …

Told you promiscuity, the act, was the problem, and male in face. If you insist on blaming one sex, they’re at the centre of anything sexual, online and off.

If you have data, go ahead and prove me wrong, manwhores.

This is as silly as arguing cuckoldry in the age of DNA testing.

In short, this suggests, pending further results, that men use and use up a lower quality of woman before trading up socially to their final partner. Kinda like a good hand to hold in blackjack. To have and to hold.. They crave the social security like women crave the sexual kind. Hypergamy is a mass neurosis of projection, to anyone who can read.

You don’t see large groups of women on the prowl, versus Pull Nights ( lads on the pull). [SATC is fiction, globally and historically.]

Pool* = sample, arguably the SMP in practice.
Female mean = the total available females in theory, e.g. including the married, the aged, the ill and the celibate.
You see the issue? They’re all lumped together, the data isn’t stratified correctly. Deliberately.
Even a bar chart based on partner count or sexual frequency in a week would be illuminating.
However, the number of count for slutty males must be even higher, because as not-practicing women hold down the slutty average, the number of non-practicing men hold down the manwhore mean too.

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Isn’t science fun?

This accurately traces the perils of lumping the sexes in together, obscuring mating patterns which crossover i.e. promiscuity. Further data computation was required to assess this question.

Obviously none of this data includes rape or other sexual crimes.
Accusing all men of being rapists is exactly as stupid as accusing all women of being whores. They’re both over-reactions designed to defame the opposite sex’s reputation from different sides (take/be taken, force/choose). Instead it cleverly plays on an old question Can a whore be raped?

Nobody mentions this. So I have to.

Shocker: Rich women don’t want gold diggers either

Note the sad MGTOW comments justifying their failure with women as the fault OF women and extolling Thai brides.

http://www.express.co.uk/life-style/life/640467/Rich-decline-date-men-earn-less-good-looking-dating

They can’t read.

They surveyed rich women and tested for shallowness. The women weren’t shallow, they didn’t want a handsome man if he failed as a provider, as a man, knowing looks fade anyway.
Rich people are acutely aware of gold diggers, of course rich women were raised to avoid men with nothing to offer. (You didn’t earn your looks).

Salary is often a reliable proxy for intelligence. If you’re somewhat intelligent, you should be able to make more money than average. This isn’t hard to understand. Higher IQs contribute more to the economy. It’s a reliable indicator.

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The only thing they proved is the importance of class. Idiotic Americans.
You don’t get to play out of your league as a man. How is that worth bragging about as a mark of superiority? Oh, these rich women would’ve rejected you for having nothing to offer while you coast on looks, aren’t they terrible? Women have a narrow window but not by much, one or two levels higher, tops.

Their Muh Hypergamy doesn’t apply when the woman is more valuable, does it, dipshits?
The manosphere hypergamy is not what the studies show, the true meaning of the term requires marriage, and the studies also show hypergamy doesn’t apply to the 21st century, numbers dropped like a rock. If hypergamy were this evil thing giving women all the power, you’d expect they’d know this. Are they happy? Never.

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I’ve met happier feminists than these guys.
Now it’s just getting sad.

Link: Assortative mating and class

http://www.unz.com/jman/the-son-becomes-the-father/

Hardly any social mobility. No hypogamy. No hypergamy (the small-scale sociology theory seems to be wrong over many generations when you look at the genetics). I wasn’t expecting that. It shows psychology has its limits too, when they’re looking in the wrong place (teachers) and asking the wrong questions (how valuable is an education?).

What we see is clearly an argument for sexually selective Leagues. (Bear in mind, it would count MMV as well as SMV). It seems to be mostly genes.

The idea that this transmission of status over time has been as Clark found it squares well with another facet I discuss frequently on this blog: the fact that parenting doesn’t have much of a lasting effect on children’s outcomes.

Although parenting can let the team down if it’s atrocious (i.e. modern) and without instinct. But it seems later generations might have hope of regaining lost ground. Presumably there’s regression to mean in parenting quality, and since most people are totally forgotten by the 4th generation it’s no wonder we see no effect.

The interesting thing is that even the people who take me seriously on this point still believe that there’s something their efforts can do, beyond keeping their children fed, clothed, clean, and cognizant of the basic ways of the world. Steven Sailer frequently suggests that the outcome of poorer children, especially those of color (mostly Hispanics) would improve if they had fewer of them, and hence could afford to invest more in each, despite the fact that this doesn’t hold up in adoption studies.

It’s an oxytocin-based instinct, but it only seems that the majority of the affectionate instinct actually needs to be applied to the spouse (in both directions) to maintain the stability for the children. Another reason divorced parents are awful. Also, I wonder whether this would change the minds of any cuckolds saying they ‘don’t mind’ if a child isn’t theirs, as long as they raise them? This applies to women raising the children of former wives too.

This study found that “cultural transmission” (i.e., from parents) couldn’t explain the pattern seen in children (indeed, the parent-child correlation was negative once you removed heredity). The non-parental environment explained the variance, suggesting that other influences, such as peers, likely explain the results.

Why else do you think mothers care so much about who their child has for friends?
It can predict crime, drug use and all sorts (peer pressure).

This issue squares the matter with Gregory Clark’s results. That is, when you consider other facets, education per se doesn’t seem to mean much in the end. Apparently, you can’t teach moxie. This is revealed by the fact that every trait “going in” that shapes a person (and should be relevant to educational attainment) reliably shows absolutely no shared environment impact.

The Middle Class fallacy. Grit and resilience come into it too (the upper class have it, the middle class despise it).
You could put little Tarquin in the best school to ever exist, it won’t make him a genius.

…including one’s work preferences and interests, the presence or absence of mental disorders, and including the features of a person we think of as “character.” Parents leave no lasting effect on any of it, aside from what they bequeath to their children genetically….

The upper class try to teach their children life skills like grit too.
The middle class assumes it will just happen. Guess who wins.
We’ve all heard comparisons of our character or habits to deceased family members, right?
I would like to see hobbies compared genetically because birth order and sibling rivalry supposedly make children opt into different ones despite genetic similarity.

Who you choose to have children with is the most important decision of your entire life. No pressure. 

Indeed, when we consider the effect of measurement error (adding it to the heritability estimate and to the somewhat nonsensical negative gene-environment correlation values), the heritability of political attitudes and social values skyrockets, being upwards of 85% (74%) for views towards pornography in women (men). The heritability of overall political orientation, when accounting for measurement error, teeters on 100%!

Liberals and conservatives will be battling for a long time to come.

Bodes well for r/K.
I think this is why K-types seem so betrayed when divorced. Total speculation. I’m sure a lot of spouses cheated on would like to stone the 3rd party responsible. Religion is a good excuse to kill the competition.

(Hence the “shared environment” ≠ “all environment.”)

That needs to be made clear for the all  would-be sociologists.

But that’s all OK, yes? The whole point of education is to “shape” the raw individual beyond his/her genetic predilection, right? Wrong.

Education cannot change potential, it can only improve performance up to the ceiling OF potential, how many times do I have to say this?

The problem is that everything that comes out, the adultout comes, shows a shared environment impact that is also zero.

If your parents were screw-ups and couldn’t hold a marriage together, you’ll probably be a screw-up too. It’s the circle of life.

OK, so you might be willing to accept that you can’t shape your child’s personality or values. You can’t control his major life outcomes. You can’t even control how much money he will go on to earn. But surely you can do something useful, like leave your children a lifetime of happiness, right? After all, I believe, and advise, that a parent’s key duty, after ensuring that their children grow up healthy and safe, is to ensure that each has a happy childhood. Surely that must count for something, too,? It does, in the form of fond memories of childhood.

This is so brutal. So redpill.
The lesson is choose your spouse wisely and once you’ve got them, stick with them. You can’t choose your own genetic profile, but you can damn well choose theirs! (This is why women are so selective).

One’s lifetime of happiness boils down to genes and to the fickleness of luck.

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I’m one of the lucky people who can be contented in a shed.
It’s like when I was told Follow your Dreams and the money will follow! I was always like ‘but if you are happy, why do you still need the money to justify your decision?’, that art teacher did not like me, not one bit. School really is a prison but that’s news to nobody, frankly. You’re there to do a thing (pass grades) and finally they grant your release. Might as well game the system and learn other, more useful things with their resources while you’re there.

He will be who he will be. It’s only my job to help him get there, and pass on the legacies of all those who came before him. I did all I could do: I married well. Beyond that it’s in the hands of “fate”.

That’s the healthy parental attitude, not the Trophy Child, as I call them, where they need something to brag about like it’s a prize-winning pet or the Dead Dreams Model where the child is pressured to do what the parent wishes they had (a whole career, not little stuff).

The vagaries of the circumstances no doubt imbued good fortune on some and dashed the success of many others.

Whether your society (born into) was just and meritocratic, I’d wager.

But through it all, the thing that is at the root of continuity – DNA – remained the active ingredient to propagate lineages in their respective places through out the ages.
It is as it was said in the Richard Donner Superman films: “The son becomes the father, and father becomes the son.

Superman quotes now? Epic.

Shocker as low time pref predicts ability to maintain relationships

Proxy studied: credit score.

http://www.hookingupsmart.com/2015/10/07/relationshipstrategies/you-may-want-to-add-this-to-your-online-profile/

Commitment = ability to choose the long term over the short term.

What a shock.
Also a proxy for class. (Class similarity predicts longevity too, another surprise considering assortative mating).

“Credit scores are widely used in a variety of contexts as an indicator of reliability and ability to honor and maintain a broad range of commitments, such as rental and employment relationships, not just those involving debt and credit.”

Time preeeeeeeference.

The honor is IN the maintenance. Sure, I guess you married her with the best intentions, but that doesn’t change the fact you slept with the secretary, you know?

We know that impulsivity predicts poor relationship skills, and low credit scores may reflect impulsive spending behavior. In fact, one of the primary characteristics of Dark Triad males is impulsivity. (Jonason & Tost, 2010; Jones & Paulhus, 2011).

What matters here isn’t the brevity of their relationships (which might be agreed upon) as much as the fact they cannot maintain them. It isn’t an ability in their repertoire. They fall short, they fail.

Another study found that “Individuals who have intercourse in the context of hookups are differentiated by high impulsivity, low concern for personal safety, low dependency, their erotic approach to relationships and an avoidant attachment style.” (Paul, McManus and Hayes, 1999)

Anything other than secure attachment style is relationship hell for the other party. They’re afraid of emotional intimacy (and commitment, which is like emotional prison for them because of it).

Clearly, the inability to defer gratification through saving should be a massive red flag.

I love how attention whores brag about their shitty relationship skills. They wouldn’t do that with any other ability, like driving. Maybe maths, since these people aren’t especially bright. Stupid people tend to pair off again. Most couple’s fights are over money (generally, the man’s job, I should point out).

And blogging (public!) about a woman’s sex life without her permission is about as bad as posting a guy’s small penis selfie to his boss and colleagues: http://www.hookingupsmart.com/2015/09/28/politics-and-feminism/a-normal-male-reproductive-strategy/ These are the same type who’ll go on about a woman’s reputation and how important it is, totally flouting the trust placed in them (they’d make such wonderful husbands, that 4 and 5) to have a sexual connection.

The male will compromise his standards for short-term mating, but not abandon them altogether. He attempts to maximize quality given the tradeoffs required by his overall goals.

Furthermore, the vast majority of men want to marry. They seek a monogamous lifelong partner. Research shows that when asked how many sexual partners a man wants in the next five years, the median answer is 1. (See the research HERE.) Marriage is by far the most successful way for men to pass on their genes.

Actually, the masculinity of what was called ‘sexual congress’ was bound up in the virility of the Pagan Gods. It was said The embrace of a god is never sterile or some such. It had nothing to do with the sex act itself. A man who has sex with 3 women and gets 2 pregnant is batting 66% reproductive recombination average. Hell, a virgin who marries and has children with one woman has a 100% success rate. A man who beds 500 women and bears no heirs (the male incentive, legacy) is a genetic failure. A man who beds every single, fertile woman on the planet with no heirs is judged impotent (not the same as infertility originally, because he could physically have children but the problem was …psychological). It used to be grounds for divorce if a man refused or didn’t want children with his wife, in a time when women didn’t have much going for them under Patriarchy (which always sides with the K-selected legacy producers aka future taxpayers). Everyone has a personal fertility rate, and in their heart of hearts, most of us don’t want to be genetic suicides.

This is why humans are monogamous. It guarantees not only paternity, but male virility (when in the state of nature, the baby or the mother would die or be killed/aborted without his protection). Evolutionary strategies around fitness ONLY APPLY WHERE THE PEOPLE INVOLVED REPRODUCE. It’s like if I applied the archeology of dinosaurs to the Bible, it’s embarrassing, please stop. Evobio comes down to maths, much like game theory. Think of all the sterile sex going on. You think Evolution counts that? It’s a blip in the history of mankind, like men who couldn’t get it up. Nature is culling those people. They are self-selecting OUT of the gene pool. Let them! 

The topic of hypergamy again. ~big sigh~

Oh, now you guys finally give a shit about sociology? Now you think it’s real? Why isn’t it part of the subject called sexology then, genius? What’s the socio- in sociosexual hierarchy all about? They aren’t the same or the topics would be merged. Stop misusing the words again, Christ on a bike, read a book. A textbook. Or make up your own words instead of poaching a thing the means the exact opposite of what you’re trying to prove.

Expecting a woman not to care about social status (read; keeping her safe) is like a fat feminist expecting Ryan Gosling (he’s popular, right?) not to care about physical attraction (read: to get it up). See? It all fits. Quit buying into the undercurrent Narrative that the sexes are meant to be the same. Is/Ought is a guillotine that murders reason. If they were meant to be the same, evolutionally, then sexual dimorphism in our species wouldn’t have happened.

The drop of arranged marriages is actually nixing marriages of social advantage.

…Today most people marry their approximate social equals, and in much of the world hypergamy is…in slow decline.

This is bad for men. The same men who tried to leverage their status (often inherited) into a better quality of wife (works both ways, don’t it?). And patriarchs (fathers) who would only give away their property (daughter) for the best price?
Which sex is more likely to ‘trade up’ (ugly term) after marriage? Clue: which sex had practically all the active profiles on Ashley Madison?

Which one usually has the problem maintaining their end of the relationship (up to marriage vows)?

…Roughly 10-20% of both men and women are promiscuous, though the most promiscuous men are more promiscuous than the most promiscuous women. (Research HERE.)

They believe it doesn’t affect their future prospects (it does with K-women aka wife material).

Futhermore, the opposite of hypergamy is hypogamy, which simply means that men tend to marry down. As hypergamy has declined with assortive mating and the egalitarian marriage, so has hypogamy. The marriage and divorce statistics contradict any notion of hypergamy as guiding female choices today….

I quibble with this when it comes to divorce settlements but the general point is true.

Here are the reproductive strategies [DS: that is not a moral license] Jared Rutledge and Jacob Owens employed to get sex:

Rape

Here’s an example from one of their podcasts (H/T: Wj):

Young Jay (Jacob), after describing a woman as manipulative:

It was really fun cuz we had sex in the shower. Hospital sex is weird! And when she is drugged, it’s strange, but it’s really cool.

Papa Jay (Jared): Could she give consent?

Young Jay: Uh-oh! (Laughter)

Papa Jay: You might have violated some California laws.

Young Jay: That is mah bad. That is mah bad.

Papa Jay: Good thing we don’t live in California. (Much laughter.) 

Projection. Scum. I bet he thinks it’s rape when a man is drunk though.

For the record, the mother of the patient, referred to as “A.” is planning to bring charges against her daughter’s rapist.

Physical Abuse

Jared admits to “wailing on a woman with a belt” and “gagging her with my dick.”

Holistic Game also tweeted this dating advice: “Bitches get stitches.”

See it all HERE.

It’s like they’re doing the jury’s job for them.
See, the problem with jokes is that some total retard is going to do it, thinking you were serious. And that could count as incitement if it’s on a somewhat serious platform like a blog, certainly in Europe. These twits don’t bother to check the laws of the countries they travel to as sex tourists and complain when they get done.

No one is faulting the men for promiscuity. With the exception of the hospital patient, the women described appear to have consented to sexual relations with Rutledge and Owens.

It’s freedom of association. They were literally two-faced (the common stereotype I have no doubt they accuse of women). I doubt those women would’ve done if they had known the other side and that’s why the blogs didn’t use their real names (what social proofing, are they doing something to be ashamed of?). At least guys like Roosh have the balls to use their real name (although he lies about it while travelling which would beg legal questions about consent). A future question on the scene might be “are you a fuckboi or PUA”? for legal protection in case he turns out to be (you laugh but it could happen, nobody likes misrepresentation and those cases are pretty cut and dried).

I. Of the 50 women Rutledge had sex with, only 3 qualified as “carousel riders.”

He found that the rest were seeking monogamous relationships, in some cases agreeing to casual sex in order to get that. He exploited that opportunity.

See what I mean?
That right there is a social contract, folks.

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The rest is quite pathetic.

“…Women want to be swept up in an emotional whirlwind, and the more I tried to keep my “Alpha cool” the more they responded with flakiness or coldness.”

I know teenage boys with more common sense. “If I don’t show I like her – she’ll think I don’t like her!” actual quote, I was very proud of that one.

They assume you’re politely fading them out. They tend to follow. And being honest, did either look Alpha? Come on. SMV-wise. Come on.

On the manosphere;

“There’s a tremendous amount of ego, and a lot of anonymity.

…They didn’t hear the hurt, they didn’t see my mom cry when she learned how many people I’ve had sex with. They don’t see what the judgmentalism they are still engaging in did to myself and other people.

I am not going to be on my deathbed having engaged in these kinds of judgments anymore, this breaking people down into their component parts. [DS: breaking people down and using their broken-ness to manipulate what you want out of them, leaving them broken – those are the actions of a sociopath] It’s unhealthy for me, and it causes irreparable and widespread damage to other people.”

She knows she raised a scumbag. She sounds like a nice woman and he let her down (and by extension, her sex, which she also let down by producing and raising him, yes women think like that, on that scale of complexity). It’s little better than a drug problem, with a similar rate of disease. If you are aware enough to see the societal decay, you have a civilian duty to never contribute to it, maybe try to repair it. Social problems happen in shockwaves. Never be the rock.

Enjoying the decline is about not causing undue pain to yourself – or anyone else.

This article ends badly, the red-pill isn’t twisted, this information used to be considered Common Sense (e.g. women and men are different creatures) and should form a reaction/reminder to unrealistic PC lessons. A balm to the bruise. Twisted people are using it as a shield to hide behind and hide their abuses of the human condition we all share. I’ve written here this has become a ‘disturbing trend’ and one we here blogging might become known for.

Ironically, real sociopaths with low time preference (called ‘successful’) are almost always married, and quite happily. They slot right into the role, overjoyed to fit in for the first time ever and have a safe outlet for their personal doubts. Those men are not sadists and their wives love them. They make good husbands.