Traits of toxic people and PUA/’game’ gaslighting

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/in-flux/201608/8-common-traits-the-toxic-people-in-your-life
” They focus on problems, not solutions.”
e.g. Critical theory and being ‘unhelpful’ for…?
“They use other people to accomplish whatever their goal happens to be.”
e.g. PUAs. Formal term is triangulation, they tell you what you want to hear.
“They make you prove yourself to them.” You only qualify yourself to a superior, peer must be assumed until proven and isn’t based on a demographic factor, it’s individual. In the reverse…
e.g. Everyone who says, in effect ‘I dislike your opinion, so you’re part of outgroup’, a no true scotsman.
“Beware of people who find fault with you and make you wrong. Loyalty is foreign to them.”
They’re never wrong, are they? 😀
“Toxic people often make you want to fix them and their problems. They want you to feel sorry for them, and responsible for what happens to them. Yet their problems are never really solved, for once you’ve helped them with one crisis, there’s inevitably another one. What they really want is your ongoing sympathy and support, and they will create one drama after another in order to get it. “Fixing” and “saving” them never works, especially since you probably care more about what happens to them than they do.”

It’s good I already mentioned pick-up and ‘game’ because it actually follows the stages of gaslighting abuse.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/communication-success/201704/the-7-stages-gaslighting-in-relationships

I’ll illustrate with examples, where possible.
1. Women are worthless. Counter: then why are you obsessed with them? You don’t base your life around something worthless. [They don’t want women to be happy without them and without being their hookers, hence the contradiction with the Western value of liberty and tradition of not being promiscuous and degenerate (applies to both sexes). They implicitly believe ‘Women should be forced to sleep with me’. Hold up there, Mohammed! They bought into the lie of porn – all women want you and they’re ‘playing hard to get’. Sexual entitlement is the secret of a loser’s desperation. The women in porn are paid to act interested, even they’re not. They also conveniently forget a supposedly desirable harem is marriage, with Middle Eastern duties on the man, the man is 100% financially responsible and the women don’t work. They refuse to get married once and object to that polygamy because it reduces nubile supply.]
2. Women are (various bad things, implying men are not). No proof, no comparison of data from both sexes. Long opinion pieces. Counter: Differentiate that from sexism. [Third-wave Feminists do this stuff too, but everyone’s already explaining that.] Negging doesn’t even work, just look at their ‘success rate’. The terms are so Orwell.
3. (They literally tell their followers –cult– to escalate whatever criticism comes their way after attention-whoring –peacocking-, so I don’t need to put anything here. They literally use the word escalate, even when what they’re escalating e.g. ‘kino’, code for physical contact, is illegal aka assault). Search PUA+game+”escalate”
4. Aside from continuation long after it’s socially acceptable, stalking, doxing and harassment, I’d also include dogpiles and other ways to get their internet boyfriends involved to keep punching down. Because punching down, 5 or more against 1 is so much better? ‘Amused mastery’ isn’t what it sounds like, it’s the denial and dickishness women uncannily and universally despise about just these guys, since they refuse to admit any useful point (brick wall) and deny-deny-deny while claiming women are the ones denying reality. They laugh at the frustration, like children, oblivious to how stupid they objectively look (also to other men).
5. Google “dread game” it’s literally this stage. Seriously.
6. ‘Beta game’ aka pretending to be a decent person for a little while. Narcissists do this already but male borderlines need to be told how to imitate it, to get the supply they need. Most ‘game’ is feigning K-selected characteristics that are evolutionally desirable while hiding what they really are, that’s why they burn out like the psychopaths they stupidly admire – it’s one big act. They pretend being fake men for years is a strength and sunk cost means they never admit it. That’s what all the ‘macho man’ fake masculinity spiel is, they’re trying to convince themselves of the delusion. Ask them how their mother’s doing. Better yet, ask her WTH happened.
7. Look up all the quotes and forum topics on ‘game’ sites describing all women as whores that want to be raped and choked, specifically. Sometimes beaten, with fists or a belt. They really do think this, they’ve projected all their desensitized sick porn habits on the Evil Lilith Judaism myth. Men don’t dominate women, they never have, they work with women on mutually agreed upon goals, the sexes cooperate or those examples die. They’re thinking of sexual domination because they don’t think with Upstairs Brain.

In effect, these males want sex slavery without the balls to run their own life, a Mommy replacement. Remember, one of Mohammed’s ‘wives’ (captive slaves) poisoned him.

They’re not joking when they say they don’t want women to have rights because they don’t see women as human. In which case, their sexuality is dubious (bestiality? which religion is that common to again?) and they can’t expect women to do any work, including childcare. Let alone their ‘share’ of the housework.

‘Game’ proponents pretend to teach the socially inept how to find wife material. They lie to other men to make shekels and seem respectable. That’s why I did the still-popular post on What does it get you? Less than the average guy, guessing. That’s without going into the brown caste of most game practitioners, desperate in their White and Blonde fetishes/Fevers. But sure, it’s the women gagging for you, huh? They don’t select for the quality or marriage, those males (not men) don’t see it, don’t value or respect it and couldn’t keep it if it managed to fall from the sky to their lap. They sexually select (DARWIN) for cheapness, easiness and sluttiness. No wonder they keep finding women to be sexually damaged, emotionally disturbed (the ones attracted to them) and disloyal. They’re signalling what they are. Birds of a feather…

Remember!

The one common denominator in all your failed relationships, is you.

The dehumanization of sexism

the edgelords going round saying women aren’t human beings and shouldn’t vote because Vox Day was kidding about it (he couldn’t apply it to his own wife, she owns his balls) should probably look at the type of person who takes this seriously… this is your Spartacus

ultimateevil

behold

projection
entitlement
craven weakness
lust, pride, sloth, gluttony, all the mortal sin goodies in one ugly package
a psychotic ignorance of forensic fact i.e. HBD says you’re wrong, men are the violent ones
sex has nothing to do with state breeding programs, in fact, they’d likely ban it like 1984
as in more men would be virgin fathers (physically possible)
pro-white doesn’t work when you’re not white, expecting a white woman who only wants a white man means you’d get rejected, this guy is like the transracial ‘blacklivesmatter’ guy who refused to accept reality with predictable results
this isn’t about me, this is about everybody else! via me! – why can’t they do a goth phase seriously
patriarchy doesn’t give you sex on a plate, ever
actually the sexual revolution would be punished for
monsters are those who deny the agency of others but try to take the moral high ground on being good
his own father was degenerate, appeal denied, this whole thing is one FUCK YOU DAD FOR FUCKING MOM
sexual control is female because this is called civilization, you’re welcome to leave
men control which women keep their own babies with provision, and which do not
adultery laws protected women from bastard spawn competing with hers
neuroscience is also a thing, men are the psychopaths, case in point
these guys insulting women are the same guys selectively quoting the bible huh, they haven’t read it? Ruth? Mary?
like, the first serious thing God says to man is that he shouldn’t be alone
blood does out, as you can see by the crazy
I mean, at least he proved part of his own theory
classic blinkers on, his own sex is flawless, right? ignore, oh, ALL OF HUMAN HISTORY.
God is not a man. Man is not a God. The Word is not mortal in origin.
seeing sex instead of a matter of quality (cross-sexual issue, deliberate ignorance)
observations are lucid, not awfully convenient in paving over personal insecurities
perceptions are often deluded when the source is broken, like a magnifying glass, everything they look at, looks broken
judges women by appearance, pretends to be deep
judges women by appearance, expects women to judge him by buried ‘character’
men of intelligence know women seek their own quality level, maybe stay in your own lane?
leagues are a good thing really, they save time
degenerate offspring don’t survive the next societal crush, exhibit A, not an issue
their parents don’t care, Malthus’ trap happens
if women don’t have rights they just abort all their pregnancies until the men and their line die off
you need us, dipshit
all these ‘harem’ (rape fantasy) societies oddly have first world living standards (with half the labour force) and forget that honour is a female concept
genetic suicide before genetic theft (rape)
death before dishonour
it’s better to be childless than have children with certain males
we see their genetic fruit, who wants to invest? a bad tree….
white men can afford to give us equal rights, inc to reject them, because they know they have the quality level to keep us interested
no other race can really afford to do this, their own women will reject them unless the women are kept ignorant and unable to provision themselves, like children (and arguably incapable of consent)
we are reminded of all this every month when we suffer periods
and little fuckheads like you take the piss, thinking we should all aspire to be porn whores
that’s the level for ‘mother of your children’
how many manly men in history ever bitched at women for our nature like that? our gift of maternity? not a single one, or at least not one who had the privilege of enjoying our body to breed their heir while we suffered damage and years of pain for it
back to him
you had money and literally zero excuse
you could’ve paid for a blowjob but nnoooooooo
nope, depravity is cultural, stop trying to sage you’re like 12
implies women are too dumb to use their power but somehow overpower all intelligent men intellectually

excuse me I just-
Go get 'em girlfriend

that one tickles me…. hits rather close to home, in purely logical terms it’s a simple preposition;
if women on top, neither stupid nor weak, asshole

there is no creature more evil and depraved than the one tripping revenge fantasies involving sex slavery and state control of sacred intimacy

disease metaphor? that’s funny, considering the male urethra’s microbiome is a major vector in STD transmission
>deserve, not how rights work

if women are evil you shouldn’t breed with them, conversation over

^thus, the true rationale of the genetic suicide

you don’t want evil/semi-evil babies, and what about taking after China, and aborting or murdering all the female ones? who is evil then? ah, but these guys just want to go like Genghis Khan, the rapist
what a role model when they claim to be so intellectual

all humans are animals, where the fuck have you been

seriously I wanna slap this kid through the veil
you know how some people are so weak AND evil that it brings out your inner bully?
If women think there’s something damaged with you, and don’t want your superficial affection on that basis, and then you try to murder them, they were right!

8 ‘worst’ outcomes of #Gamergate, by a White Knight

http://whatculture.com/gaming/8-worst-likely-outcomes-gamergate-scandal.php

8. Sarkeesian quits.
She doesn’t have a real job, but okay? I should care because she has tits like me, is that it?

7. Those who sent the death threats are arrested.
Good. It’s probable certain threats were self-sent by the professional victims. Throw away the fucking key.

6. Gaming websites cease to function.
You mean the ones that insist gamers are evil and dead as a demo? Hip hip hooray!

5. Zoe Quinn leaves the industry.
She isn’t really in the industry, most of her ‘code’ was outsourced. Pathetic example, we need to clean house.

4. Reviews as we know them get abolished.
Calling a game racist/sexist/bigoted isn’t a review. It’s a political conversion rant to feminism. No one who buys the game cares.

3. Gamergate gives up.
Have you been paying attention? He says no one can understand how it happened at this point. No, boy, that’s just you.
The MSM have given up covering it, what does that say?

2. Someone actually gets killed.
Do you believe Jezebel too? Media violence doesn’t increase real violence, you illiterate fool.
Read up on the science. Or start burning books, CDs, DVDs and all other forms of media too.

1. A stalemate where nobody wins.
You’d like that, wouldn’t you? Cannot conceive of losing, even when it’s been happening for months.

Idiot isn't as much a person as a process of doing things wrong

Warning signs you’re dating a loser

http://masksofsanity.blogspot.co.uk/2009/12/warning-signs-youre-dating-loser.html

It’s equal opportunities losers, male AND female.

  1. Rough treatment
  2. Quick attachment and expression
  3. Frightening temper
  4. Killing your self-confidence
  5. Cutting off your support
  6. The mean and sweet cycle
  7. It’s always your fault
  8. Breakup panic
  9. No outside interests
  10. Paranoid control
  11. Public embarrassment
  12. It’s never enough
  13. Entitlement
  14. Your friends and family
  15. Bad stories
  16. The waitress test
  17. The reputation
  18. Walking on eggshells
  19. Discounted feelings/opinions
  20. They make you crazy