Porn ruins real sex lives

http://bigthink.com/philip-perry/how-internet-porn-is-changing-how-men-and-women-are-having-sex
That’s the point, then you consume more.
And not just porn.
This used to be called corruption of the young. Their brains are plastic. Socrates deserved it.
Porn, as a supernormal stimulus, affects adults too.
To clarify a previous comment, there is no such thing as a boyfriend or girlfriend and the connection is a nonsense claim. It’s friends with benefits, the clue is in the name. Legally it means nothing. It isn’t traditional either, more like a prostitute in an apartment arrangement, where you pay via utilities and groceries. Those are historical and just another form of hooker. The 19th century in London saw many, an invisible kind of prostitution, as people were forced to cram houses anyway.
Hook-up culture has been designed to alienate men with subpar experiences and in turn put off women since the men don’t want them, so you might as well work overtime.
Porn actors are actors, it isn’t real at all. It’s like basing your knowledge of language on the bursting into song part of
musical numbers. People should be embarrassed to watch it as a puppet show because that’s essentially what it is, a fuck-puppet show.
Without masturbation, how many societal ills would disappear?
In the case of women, would menarche and visible sexualisation of puberty occur later, as it always did in the past? Would men evolve past pajama boy phases with the incentive of more testosterone in their system on a daily basis?
Frigidity, which I mentioned before, is simply an attempt to pathologise a natural female disinterest in sex. There is no such thing as female impotence, because a woman’s completion of the response cycle isn’t required for conception. From this study, we are not shocked to find married women (with the most security and emotional connection, female desires) have the best sex life and as known previously, married people have more sex overall, but it’s surprising to some that men don’t like this free-for-all too. The buffet doesn’t satisfy, it feels cheap because they don’t breed, that is the original fulfillment of the process – the fruit of their loins. Sterile sex appears to be disenchanting men with the whole practice and putting them off the investment for other, deeper kinds. Have you seen a Muslim man unhappy with his sex life? How about a Catholic, the real kind with no contraception?
TLDR: pair bonding is necessary for good sex. Like I said before, if you can’t enjoy vanilla, well, you don’t like ice cream.
The boring people are the ones constantly chasing new things like a dog at a car. That isn’t appreciation, novelty-seeking is too shallow, if anything it’s a form of gluttony, that doesn’t sense the things it takes in.
The Pill probably doesn’t help the female psyche either. Pregnant women are too grumpy to appreciate sex.
An all-male study on male appreciation that they can’t fake would be useful. Sexual satisfaction studies already exist but controls are needed. What are you afraid of finding?
The references in this are interesting. Description bar.

e.g. Endocrine response to masturbation-induced orgasm in healthy men following a 3-week sexual abstinence.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11760788
In the UK, PornHub was the 35th most visited website for children ages 6 to 14 in 2013.
Children and Parents: Media Use and Attitudes Report (2014, October) (p. 232). http://stakeholders.ofcom.org.uk/binaries/research/media-literacy/media-use- attitudes-14/Childrens_2014_Report.pdf.

We wuz warned.

http://biblehub.com/mark/9-43.htm

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And if your eye causes you to stumble, pluck it out. It is better for you to enter the kingdom of God with one eye than to have two eyes and be thrown into hell, line 47.

http://biblehub.com/mark/9-50.htm

“Salt is good, but if it loses its saltiness, how can you make it salty again? Have salt among yourselves, and be at peace with each other.”

Ah, men.

Is any of this extreme? No, it used to be common sense. As in, most common book in existence?

http://biblehub.com/matthew/10-34.htm

Can’t stop logic, it always breaks in eventually.

http://biblehub.com/matthew/10-26.htm

Stefan’s right, sunlight is the best disinfectant.

http://biblehub.com/matthew/13-12.htm

For to the one who has, more will be given, and he will have an abundance, but from the one who has not, even what he has will be taken away.

^ also applies to faith, it’s a cycle of being good, receiving good

http://biblehub.com/matthew/12-33.htm

Either make the tree good and its fruit good, or make the tree bad and its fruit bad, for the tree is known by its fruit.

You brood of vipers! How can you speak good, when you are evil? For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. [virtue signalling is false piety]

The good person out of his good treasure brings forth good, and the evil person out of his evil treasure brings forth evil.

I tell you, on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak,

for by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.”

http://biblehub.com/psalms/58-10.htm

The righteous will rejoice when he sees the vengeance; he will bathe his feet in the blood of the wicked.

Read Candide.
It blew the whistle on moral decay precipitating the decline.
Long before Galt, cultivate your garden, folks.

Does masturbation cause acne in males?

I bring this up out of sympathy.

Based on traffic, this might be of use as motivation to certain readers.

Here’s a woman’s pitifully ill-informed take, trust the men who say it causes breakouts. Trust them!

http://thelovevitamin.com/3400/does-masturbation-cause-acne-in-males/

It throws your hormones out of balance and depletes your nutrients. The skin gets those last. Since it’s a self-soothing behaviour, you’re likelier to do it when stressed and compulsively, instead of say, exercising and eating better, to feel better.
Duh.
The hormones released during the male orgasm (I assume that’s the intention) such as progesterone (yes, the thing in The Pill and the reason women get period spots) DO literally cause acne. They boost sebum production and it’s inflammatory too. Women might require more because it balances the increased estrogen produced, so obviously that doesn’t apply to men.
Androgen spikes occur when male levels are already higher, as do the usual ‘thrill’ and stress hormones. Thyroid and adrenal (DHEA-S) issues might throw off the acid mantle’s protective function and no offense, but most compulsive masturbators have awful hygiene, they’re unlikely to be using toner after their exertions.
It wouldn’t apply to women because the way women orgasm (vascular, electrical) doesn’t do much to the hormones and probably makes the skin clearer, if the rumours are true (Vivien Leigh’s carnal rejuvenation).

Scientifically, go one month without touching it and get your levels tested.

The next month, whack it as much as you want and get them tested again.

This way around so you aren’t working from a depleted sack.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15669543

For starters.

I would like to reiterate for the millionth time, ejaculation is not synonymous with orgasm, in either sex!

Sex duration and the sad-sack of PUA wannabes

http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/technology-science/science/how-long-should-sex-last-7693252

Considering the number of porn addicts, I don’t think that sample’s legitimate. Not to mention the way it can weaken the tissue structures e.g. prone position.
Five minutes isn’t really trying, anything less than ten is lazy.

Even the celibate religious used to train their bodies to last much, much longer (and not ejaculate, which isn’t actually the classical goal of masturbation). There are plenty of resources about training your body in this way, and yet these supposed ‘fit’ and ‘healthy’ men refuse to do it.

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Because they can’t.

It’s harder than diet and exercise.

It involves real self-control.

And they can’t do it.

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You may think I’m being harsh. Not so.

I’ve never spoken to a man (or woman) who learned to control such things, and regretted it.
In every single case, they said something to the effect of “I wish I’d learned this stuff as a teen, seriously.”

Older men weren’t able to last longer than young ones, while wearing a condom or being circumcised didn’t boost chaps’ performance either.

Arteriosclerosis affects one particular area in men….
This is ignoring the probability of nerve damage with age (considering how many so-called men can’t leave the damn thing alone for a while).

“Another surprising finding was that the older the couple, the shorter the sex, contrary to the prevailing wisdom (probably peddled by older men),” Zietsch continued.”

The PUAs lying about older men being better in the sack are lying to themselves…

Speaking of these degenerate try hards.

http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/meet-britains-biggest-player-who-7850657

He isn’t good-looking, and he’s clearly massaging those numbers. Go on then, what’s the secret?

“The cut-price Casanova also claims one of his hobbies is “upsetting women”.

And they wonder why they repel Wife Material….
And attract fake bimbos….
And eventually die alone and childless….
Evolutionally speaking, a beta with a single child is more of a success.
Not to mention the odds of him having Pelvic Inflammation, that won’t help fertility.

The gym bunny says his father had 12 children with five different women but “doesn’t know” if that has anything to do with the way he treats women.”

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Their parental issues are so predictable it’s becoming a punchline.

R-types, forever fucked up.

Link: Podcast – The psychology of attraction

http://psychologyofattractivenesspodcast.blogspot.co.uk/

I’m listening to

Men produce more semen when they view more porn stars.

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Mandatory picture. Not sorry. 

Coolidge effect = male hypergamy. Suck on that hatefact.

In evolutionary terms, this situation is only supposed to happen a few times in a man’s entire life. To take advantage of the super-rare mating opportunity of multiple, nubile available women.
If it happens frequently, as in porn addicts or the supposed sex addict, it’s bad for your health (endocrine system and so on). That’s why many societies dissuaded it and as the manosphere knows with No Fap, it saps male ambition, one of the greatest male attributes.
Seminal volume also changes with age, there are graphs if you go and look.

The hypofrontal damage of porn addiction and loss of ambition

http://www.mercatornet.com/family_edge/view/cosmo-cover-helps-feed-porn-addiction/16662

It can cause serious health problems with the endocrine system and adrenal fatigue. Everytime a man jerks it, his body uses up precious resources which would be otherwise spent within the body, including testosterone. Have you ever met a porn addict with motivation? The Victorians called it self-abuse for a good reason. Men who don’t masturbate, or rarely (once a month or less) report sublimation, increased energy and vigour and ambition.

Another good article;

http://www.artofmanliness.com/2014/10/08/the-possible-pitfalls-of-too-much-porn/

Further, a woman who can’t arouse or pleasure her man is likely to feel that she’s no longer attractive or desirable to him, [wrong, totally the addict’s fault, their choice to damage their body’s responses] which can be devastating to her sense of self-worth. And she’s actually right to feel insecure: studies show that people who look at porn find their partners less attractive.

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That’s screwed up. As if it doesn’t count, huh? That’s what they think? The brain doesn’t know the difference between viewing porn and being part of an orgy. Nobody should stay with an addict. ANY addict. By doing this, they enable them to hurt themselves. Sex is marriage glue. Yet they think it’s acceptable to choose unreal pixel people to the woman who loves them and committed to them? The psychological infidelity (fantasy, fine, call it whatever) and delusion is astounding.

On a broader level…

Men used to be the champions of industry, captains of their field. Why the sudden loss of fire? Well…. it’s going in tissues. In the bin. All of those micronutrients the body could’ve expended elsewhere. The hormone damage long term. This is why Eastern books recognized that men lose vital essence (and vitality) each time they have sex (women do not because sperm is the real chemical drain, it might be the man’s only evolutionary chance to father children). Men who sleep around are affected just as much as porn addicts, hence their need for supplementation, haha. Quite a weakness, isn’t it, for a group who claim independence from women? Insatiable lust and craving of A woman, any woman, would suggest the mightiest of pussy pedestals, beyond any beta male. The brain damage from whacking it is unique from healthy sex…

Again, this site has links to many many many neuroscience studies, in case someone wants to whine about bias

yourbrainonporn.com

To this day, if you speak to health workers in asylums and special schools – many, many self-abusers inc. women. Well above average. And I’ll just leave you to consider this in light of feminism’s efforts to justify female nymphomania/hysteria (and chronic masturbation or porn use) which of course meant arguing it was fine for men too;

Although inappropriate sexual expression was commonly observed in the mentally ill, it was inaccurately identified as a cause of insanity in the 19th century. It was also during this period that male circumcision became popular in western culture, largely motivated by its perceived preventative effect on masturbation. While masturbation has since been identified as a normal and healthy behavior, [???] male circumcision remains a common practice in western world, though it no longer has any correlation to mental health.

Most ED cases are masturbation addicts who refuse to abandon porn too. Their wives divorce them for it (well it is an addiction so fair enough, they prefer pixel women to a real one who loves them, that is messed up).

In couples therapy, the woman is usually there to try and convince the addict he has a problem. Most therapists bring their own Free Love bias to this question and try some Middle Path and wonder why the man’s issues don’t cease e.g. he doesn’t give up porn but they watch it together. It’s sick.

Porn dulls the body’s response to sex, that is the choice the addict makes.

Did I mention it shrinks the brain? Like being fat?