A good metaphor and one he keeps coming back to.
Except Lilith is the dominant, prevailing one in the Western culture.
He won’t mention her because it’s part of the Jewish pantheon.
And Orthodox Jews are bigger misogynists than any Muslim,
I’m linking to this because the “women are repulsed by the visual” post was oddly popular.
Women are attracted to masculine traits. Read: K-selected ones. An r-selected man is a coward, constantly flitting and fleeing. Other men don’t respect it, this isn’t a sexual thing you can blame on women but a defect of character. Commitment phobe is such an insult to men because it basically means deserter of your own life. They do “die” but they don’t have the stones to shoot themselves like their hero Hemingway (the male Virginia Woolf or Sylvia Plath). A man’s life is shaped by the promises he makes on his honour. They never grow up, they immediately ascertain to themselves, by themselves, their inferiority. Why would the world think otherwise?
Existing isn’t an accomplishment, the world owes these men nothing but they expect so much, impossible things. Since the world isn’t a nurturing caregiver (feminine), they take this out on the humans who embody this (women).
The immaturity of r-men is consistent across time periods and cultures. In the army, they shot them. Simply calling a spade, a spade is nothing unless you’re a narcissist with a brittle ego. Then it’s ego death and that’s why the rage, the wrath, the fronting until they’re physically confronted.
Nobody respects the schoolyard bully. Imagine he grew up but his mind and actions were the same. I suppose it’s a kind of emotional retardation. Pity is the opposite of sexy and it has its limits when dealing with adults. When they’re spiteful it goes from seeing them as a child and caring a little, to seeing them as the negative female, which, ironically, they come to embody. Nobody hates the negative feminine more than the positive feminine, the mature woman. And these guys wonder, why are all the women I attract terrible?
Like attracts like. Women won’t tolerate less than men and men won’t tolerate girlishness either. Other adults aren’t your parent but these guys always expect special treatment. Adult exchanges are based on mutuality. Sexist people are selfish around the opposite sex. They deserve to be lonely, that’s life kicking them in the teeth and trying to use the feedback to improve them.
Think of misogynists. They’re bitches, right? They manipulate women to hurt them and get their jollies. Oh, how impressive. You hurt someone who trusted you, wow. How great.
Cowardly women retreat from the game too. These are the stereotypical fish/bicycle people you can find on the social justice tag of tumblr.
Nobody talks about them. Women distance themselves from the immature of their own sex as well. How many female friends does Angelina Jolie have? ZERO.
She’s called Predator on gossip blogs!
This isn’t about men. One problem with modern men is thinking they’re special. Not everything is about men. Most things, in fact. When you think about it, this is a relief. Oh, but if they can’t get negative attention either, what would a toddler do, something with no emotional regulation ability?
That’s right, throw a tantrum.
Mantrum has become a phrase because it has been needed.
If they can’t harden themselves to a simple rejection, which women “suffer” too (it’s no big deal, really, brooding is unhealthy) then they might as well try to crawl back into their mother’s womb. Little kids are scared to talk to adults. Any time you do things in the world – apply for a job, try to make new friends, apply for a new loan, you will probably get rejected.
Maturity is knowing that’s a good thing. Nobody wastes their time.
Everybody has a right to say no and if they say yes, you know they want to be there. It’s a lovely thing.
The stories of Medusa don’t fit the misogynist’s claims very well.
Lilith fits them to a tee.
You can’t trust women.
You can’t live with women.
You can’t bond or connect with women.
Because women aren’t full human beings.
Women are scary.
Women are so scary they must be crazy.
There’s no use understanding them, the unknown is attractive but pure evil.
Definitely never have a child with a woman.
It’s a trick.
They’ll always hurt you, like your mother.
In fact, they’ll kill the babies.
ALL the babies.
They’ll do all sorts of weird sexual things with anyone.
If they won’t fuck you, they must be fucking somebody else.
Because normal women actually fuck more than the average male porn star.
Women don’t have a nurturing instinct, ignore biology.*
They want to ruin you, they want to hurt you.
^ see? Fits Lilith exactly.
It’s ludicrous, they make things up. Logically they contradict.
e.g. women are shallow, women date ugly. Women want money, women want not-money more than money.
Good women want a provider, a woman who thinks I need a stable job is a bitch.
I need a woman who looks a certain way, women aren’t allowed to prefer someone else.
Women always want or need a man, regardless of life situation. Men need women like a fish needs a bike.
I have no time for women, I don’t like them, why aren’t I surrounded by them? [ah, MGTOW, Reverse Psychology doesn’t work, you’re still the same person.]
It’s typical liberal irrationality. They claim mutually exclusive opposites and this is why people laugh at them.
With the deeply sexist people (the more you score, congrats), they project their own flaws e.g. the user and abuser will project it on the women he abuses, to sustain his egocentrism of being a good person. Because naturally, humans deserve to be abused….? This is where psychopathy comes in.
Narcissists especially despise anyone with standards. They failed to meet their parents, in their own mind. The higher a person’s standards, the more they will be hated.
A story about two women, one vain about her hair, or a mortal woman being raped by a God … is too much of a victim narrative to squarely align with the misogynist’s claims.
Misandrists claim the same about men, with a few additions.
There are no good men.
They are all immature.
Sweeping statements are generally stupid (lol)
This is demonstrably false but in our times, it can appear true at times.
Like how, if you keep seeking out the worst quality women, it will put off the good ones so eventually the bad side is all you see. When you have a certain amount of life experience, you’ll see people get what they deserve.
This isn’t a maybe.
People get what they deserve.
e.g. you treat people you date like shit? You’ll attract more challenging partners who will treat you even worse.
You’ll see it happen.
People-watching those people is great. Nothing will make you believe in the Bible more than watching their cosmic comeuppance over time. Who do they blame? Never the common denominator.
If someone has a sucky childhood, okay. If the rest of your life is awful, that’s all on you.
*The r-women don’t have a maternal bone.
And she ended up breeding with another r.
She just wants a Nobel Peace Prize, same as Leonardo.