Narcissistic male views marriage as status symbol

And a cover. It is less a yoke and more a ball and chain because they expect to take, take take and never give (even their gender role) unless they expect more in return – so not a union, more like running a business.

Good marriages aren’t a scoreboard.

Being married isn’t an achievement, you signed your name. It isn’t a status to hit others with like a rhetorical weapon. A good marriage is an achievement but I guarantee the married men bitching about single women don’t have one of those. Shouldn’t you be with your family than wasting time online? It’s un-Biblical, they’re bad husbands. They cherish every woman BUT their wife. (And they deny their body belongs to their wife).

The Madonna/Whore complex means they are emotionally impotent with their own wife. They hate her because she is his wife. (Because they hate themselves, thus resent her for loving him).

They don’t have empathy, they can’t love (even themselves). They can only imitate and parody i.e. seduction, “romance” cliches, while acting out of sync behind the mark’s back (lying, confabulated memory, cheating). It’s ALL superficial so they intend to lovebomb, mirror (to seem like a soulmate) and trick “good” women into the trap of legal union (personality disorders do this all the time, usually the mask doesn’t slip until after the wedding so long courtship had the old role of filtering them out). The prey can’t escape.

There is usually gaslighting during courtship into codependency (or deeper from an already codependent woman) so he uses the woman for supply before the marriage but she views it as emotional intimacy (wrong*), taking advantage of the novelty of the situation and fact she hasn’t seen all his sides (not informed consent). They don’t even know how bitter he is until after marriage, typically (because he is running off her supply so it doesn’t come out). These are later the divorced guys who act like innocent maidens attacked by the dragon of divorce and warn all men off marriage because they personally sucked at it. (Husband is a job so they devalue it once it turns out to be, you know, WORK).

Psychopaths are best known for doing that bait and trap thing with marriage, we need strict legal protections from such people (men and women both) and psychopaths are the most pathological narcissist.

There are plenty of good videos on that channel, including ones about women and traits the narcissist seeks to take for themselves via relationships, as an emotional vampire.

Oh, and they always cheat in marriage. They claim all men are similarly weak or “unhappy” because they don’t like other men either, thinking of other men as happy, faithful or good husbands would kill them on the inside.

So when no-fault divorce is over, they’ll be screwed twice!

Marriages require both parties to have emotional maturity (cooperation, compromise) so any union with a narcissist in it is doomed, even if the other party is a literal Saint. Naturally, it’s never their fault, like any incompetent person so they get married again and again and make the same “mistakes” again and again but there’s no agency involved apparently.

They were innocent victims of the vagina, as they purchased a ring and got down on one knee and said things they didn’t mean and spent months planning and turned up to say some lines and where, oh, where, did they go wrong?

They’re never wrong, according to them. Despite how their life is always a mess.

They’ll claim men are leaders in a marriage but resent the business of actually leading.

This is the guy who’ll claim to be traditional but hates religion and has a long, long line of “exes” you’re not “allowed” to “judge”. They’re such hypocrites they’re a walking joke.

*Emotional labour is real and doing too much of it (for two whole people) can kill a woman (stress x disease risk) or, rarely, a man. Commonly, a man is killed by stress at work (physical labour) but a woman’s lifespan is shortened by stress at home (emotional labour) so who a woman marries can literally be life or death, it can be the difference of a happy life and extra decades. Women need this information.

I’d bet good money that Type A men have an unhappy marriage and the woman has a similar disease risk profile. A married man’s primary responsibility is to his wife and until society pushes this point hard, men won’t try. They’ll ignore the marriage for career, friends, addiction (workaholism is the socially desirable addiction though). If the man won’t Be the Man, nothing the woman does will succeed. Men shirk their duties, abandon the home (literally or spiritually) and what can a woman do about that? Force him? No! Then she’s being the man!

And random but when society values women’s happiness and feminine energy levels over her contribution to GDP, we’ll be nicer overall. EVERYBODY WINS.

I’ve seen feminine women mocked by other women (envy) and torn down by men (who knows it’s easier to bed a High T harridan). Pick your poison, guys. Either you want women to earn their keep and be a whore in your bedroom or you want a docile purer kind and shun the former. You can’t expect mutual exclusives, it’s impossible. And you have to be worthy of the woman you want or it won’t last.

Funny example

One guy I spoke to said he liked “traditional women” but he also filtered FOR a “career woman”.

His words. He thought this was clever. He wanted the status of her “achievements”, you see.

When pressed (and I was pressed myself at the ignorance), he said he expected a woman to have a “good” (secure) job (be locked in), and have “at least” a middle-class salary. I just told him he sounded like a woman… from the 50s.

He literally did, I swear, there were other details that sealed it e.g. sexual experience. Why would any sane man want a wife who’s had more fun with other men?

He insisted there was no contradiction or way this could possibly backfire on him. That, my friends, is the idiot in action. When I pointed out those are impossible values systems, polar opposites, he claimed a traditional woman would be “bad in bed” (like you can’t teach them?) and “lazy” for not wanting an office job. The feminist propaganda has sunk into men the deepest.

They feel entitled to seek their male qualities in their wife.

That’s dysfunctional and you can’t convince me otherwise.

How lazy! What, is he going to take on the female role and give birth?

He only claimed to want trad because it’s the current status symbol, because he likes the idea of it and the supply it might give him. He married an SJW. She cooks sometimes and “lets him” tradlarp. He’s a moron. The woman who is cautious is feminine, there’s no rush – the woman desperate for a husband, any husband, is using you.

I have betting odds on his divorce. Easy money.

https://disenchantedscholar.wordpress.com/2018/07/16/why-wont-women-be-right-wing/

As it is, hypersexualised porno society has made women very masculine, higher T. They also need it to defend themselves in a low trust, multiculti society and that, naturally, never gets a mention. Unsafe society = everyone gets more aggressive. Sort out the former and the latter reverts.

We’re cultural refugees, in a way. Pining for a world that doesn’t exist.

We live in the dishonour culture, where people who act like whores aren’t ashamed of it, they’re proud. With freedom of association, we could avoid these people (m/f).

Not every man who wants to get married would be a good husband. Sometimes they want a slave to abuse but in the Bible such treatment (like property, like using a machine or a PA, housekeeper) instead of the equal yoke, to love and to cherish, was grounds for divorce. So nope, they can’t hide behind religion…. unless we can stone them for adultery (lawsuits were less bloody).

Trad test: what should be the punishment for adultery?

Trads know adultery is a crime. To “commit” adultery demands punishment.

Jezebel spirits and soul ties

Speaking of media, nobody touching Jezebel?

http://www.jonasclark.com/sex-soul-ties-jezebel-seducing-spirit/

“Every person you have sex with leaves a part of them in you. That part is a soul tie. Some, not all, soul ties come from sexual relations. Many more soul ties come from emotional manipulation.”
They’re also called emotional vampires.
Soul ties are also how various Satanic rituals work.

http://www.jonasclark.com/witchcraft-loneliness-church-jezebel-spirit/
“The dullness is similar to a drunken stupor.”
Urge to tag.
“Over time I felt controlled and saw how she used helping me as a way to make her feel good.”
Covert narcissism, the self-proclaimed Saint, they get off feeling superior so you’ll never heal, they can’t allow it.

Jordan reminds me of Jordan

http://dexter.wikia.com/wiki/Jordan_Chase

The similarities are uncanny.

There is truth because there is no truth because there might be truth. WELL. I’m convinced!

Truth – what I believe
No truth – beyond me (solipsism, false*)
Might be truth – appeal to evidence* (perceptual bias)

Floppy beliefs, very difficult. He’s taken men’s ability to rationalize and weaponized it against them. Evidence is objective, beyond the self, you can’t deny things you dislike. Appeal to confirmation bias.*

There is no truth – paradoxical statement.

All attempted replacements to Christianity will fall prey to entropy eventually.

I don’t trust people who promise material deliverance without remorse.

It’s Fight Club rhetoric telling men they’re supposed to act like dogs. Antisocial shit.

Metaphor metaphor metaphor rebellion.

The metaphors are the lube.

When I saw people refer to a JP years ago, I thought they were referring to the satirical “guru”.

(awaken with JP)

This is how a psychopath feels, having no inner self (soul).

They see themselves as normal. There’s no conscience to correct the feeling. The narcissism makes them feel like they’re the true ideal, rather.

based on http://voxday.blogspot.co.uk/2018/05/it-was-right-there-all-along.html#c5930918308717031439

I could be wrong.

A lot of psychologists are sociopathic, maybe not the full-blown thing but …traits. They enjoy the control over people’s minds. It’s like CEO positions select for arrogance. You can get them to admit this if you play your cards right.

Psychologists never study themselves.

Think on that.

Celebrities, you know nothing

YOU ARE THE ELITE.

YOU ARE THE RICH.

WE DON’T WANNA EAT YOU.

PAY TAXES.

GET HOLLYWOOD TO PAY ITS TAXES.

STOP GETTING YOUR BULLSHIT MADE IN SWEAT SHOPS.

STOP USING ILLEGAL IMMIGRANT LABOUR FOR YOUR BRATS OR YOUR FOOD.

STOP WITH THE PRIVATE JETS.

then we’ll see if you still feel the compulsion to virtue signal.

Credit: Stop being a pleb

I’ve been waiting to roll this one out again.

Esteem without erudition is a bad thing.

Technically, esteem is old. However, it relates to respect in society, in the family model, it’s fully social and honour, personal honour based on virtue and the elimination of vice (so no visiting brothels or carousing). If you were a gentle-person, you were HELD “in esteem”. You don’t get to choose it for yourself. It’s like letting lottery players pick the winner. They can try to change the definition but in adults, that’s what esteem still means.

It is not popularity or friendliness. It is moral authority and intellectual adeptness. A genius is esteemed for their brilliance, a priest is esteemed for their sage purity.

Kids are meant to have esteem in their development. Sure, you might be growing new hair in strange places but this is normal.

Matured adults? You’re meant to have a stable identity, yet we still see teenage habits, patterns and thought processes. It’s disgusting.

They’re backwards, hardly immature exactly but regressing.

As in, they’ll become more emotionally unstable with time, as the duties of adulthood overwhelm them and they falsely view these as a burden, while suffering for the childhood potential they refuse to admit is over.

e.g. those intolerable Baby Boomers weren’t as insufferable 20 years ago, and 20 years before that would probably have seemed okay.

It’s called spoiled rotten for a reason, entitlement is a cancer that sinks in early.

Peter Pan was a warning, a child snatcher would take you and kill you, sure, but becoming a Lost Boy would ruin your life and deaden any potential you might’ve had.

It’s no coincidence in the original, Peter murders them, rather than “letting” them grow up.

Your feelings lie. Your feelings can be totally and utterly false, wrong, bad. In fact, if there’s a major problem in your life, your emotions probably reflect this. They test nothing, Byron was a wreck.

If only we had been warned about this.

http://biblehub.com/jeremiah/17-9.htm

Feelings are largely reactions to physical and circumstantial states.

Especially if you claim not to believe in “biological determinism” (nature).

Therapy wouldn’t ever be needed if feelings were always logical, right and pure.

Our society wants people to glow with virtue, while demonstrating none. Kinda like staring at a glass of Vitamin C rich OJ and hoping it’ll displace your cold.

We listen to our “feelings” (usually a cover for the baser instincts and impulses) to smother the conscience.

Beneath that, spirit. I won’t hold my breath on that one.

You will pay eventually.

http://biblehub.com/jeremiah/17-10.htm

Stolen esteem (we used to call that hubris) + Shitty economy forcing adults to behave like children + Vice after Vice after Vice =

http://www.independent.co.uk/news/education/education-news/millennials-uk-mental-health-depression-world-ranking-second-worst-study-anxiety-a7572026.html

If you are a shitty person and you feel it, that’s a sign all is right and just with the world. Your perceptions are completely right, you just don’t like them because you’re a brat.

God forbid Lord Fauntleroy be expected to change or do something mildly unpleasant.

Feeling bad isn’t a bad thing – if it was just deserts. That’s called guilt, remorse, shame and all sorts of other words we need to bring back. Feeling bad can’t be a punishment from God, can it, atheists? It’s funny how the Nurture people are also first to reach for the pills, although we’re all completely the same, which doesn’t stop at the neck. (Fact: depressed people aren’t actually serotonin deficient, that was a lie debunked to sell pills and the theory hasn’t died).

Atheists don’t believe they are soul-less. They must be. Psychopaths, if you look it up, like other “low empathy” defined conditions e.g. Aspergers, don’t believe they have no feelings for others. Why? Faulty perception.

If humans aren’t sacred, our life is worth nothing. We are like ants, our suffering (rape, theft, murder) is nothing to balk at. It’s natural. Nature is violent and cruel, it’s good for the environment. There is no secular morality possible, it’s an oxymoron. Only holy things have rights per se, bequeathed as part of their spiritual power e.g. holy water has the right to baptize, no other water will do. Only humans go to heaven, not dogs (they don’t need to). Morality is an objective structure (it doesn’t differ by individual; their sex, race, whatever else) and it is based on an absolute premise: there can be no good without the real existence of evil. We shun and punish evil and pursue and reward good, all societies of longevity do this or devolve into savagery. The modern amorality considers popularity and the groupthink of “consensus reality” to determine an ever-changing and propaganda-useful right (elite) and wrong (everyone under them). The Pleasure Principle belonging to Freud defined the rapist, not a good man. You were expected to grow out of the Id-only stage as a toddler.*

They need to brainwash you because mind control only works if the entire group falls for it.

A bad person feeling bad is a good thing.

A good person feeling bad is complicated. For example, more depressed countries tend to be multicultural areas, nobody dare study this.

If you want a secular example of the rights point – only a native citizen has a (God-given) right to live in a country. Rights to do are based on facts of nature, what you are. Those do not change.

*Hedonism is the sure sign of a weakened mind, always has been the #1 indicator of psychiatric dysfunction as long as pathologies have been recorded. They have no authority to lecture from.

The retardation of the brain regions involved in impulse control is the physical, undeniable reason for this.

Click to access willpower-gratification.pdf


“When presented with tempting stimuli, individuals with low self-control showed brain patterns that differed from those with high self-control. The researchers found that the prefrontal cortex (a region that controls executive functions, such as making choices) was more active in subjects with higher self-control. [DS: normal] And the ventral striatum (a region thought to process desires and rewards) showed boosted activity in those with lower self-control.” [DS: retarded, compensatory over-excitation]

Literally retarded growth.

Notable absence 

https://www.cnet.com/news/blade-runner-2049-sean-young-rachael-mpc-visual-effects/

They didn’t want to pay her but re-using footage they already bought is handy.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/films/2017/10/20/sean-young-alleges-harvey-weinstein-flashed-reveals-blade-runner/

http://www.renegadetribune.com/actress-sean-young-talks-jews-media-mind-control/

I don’t know how true the last link is but I can vouch for the first two.

She was absent and Harvey was responsible for many of her crazy rumours.

That’s the thing they do, you see. Hollywood abusers. They can’t call these women witches but nowadays the crazy label lets you drug, torture and ruin people financially and socially. They do it with men too but it doesn’t really stick. Boys will be boys.

And the unicorn scene stands, damn it.

Meanwhile, in related news, psychiatrists are trying to change the meaning of a personality disorder (the entitlement of narcissism) into a spectrum.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201802/3-core-facets-narcissism-malignant-adaptive

Technically, even autism isn’t on a spectrum.

If you can tie your shoelaces and use a microwave, you’re really not.

Personality disorders are more binary than that – either you’re empty or you’re not.

They want to loosen the definition for two reasons.

  1. to get Trump impeached (you breached the Goldwater rule).
  2. to misdiagnose on the same scale as autism now the jig is up for dat money.

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/autism-is-vastly-overdiagnosed-its-the-parentswayout-xzwlg2wsx

I’m starting to see why Scientology may have this one point.

I wonder if the Valley is working on a Sean Young of Blade Runner sexbot for Musk.
Seems like just his type. Princess Leia would be a bit dark, even for him.