Poland stuff is at the end.
That was the deal. Asians aren’t Christians, they lack the altruism genes.
For richer, for poorer is an idea.
Plus, if you marry down economically for looks (hypergamy) then you entered a financial contract on the basis of your starting income. When it dips, her looks don’t change but suddenly you provide less value (plus Asian princess syndrome social shame, saving face stigma pressure to leave) so she’ll retract her end and cash out before you go completely bust. Collectivists are not individualists. They value what you give, not family ties. They ghost their own blood relations.
The pretend naivete is most insulting. The focus is not husband (like Christianity) but kids. Guy’s a glorified sperm donor, they don’t actually respect you (why the aged Asian shrew henpecking her husband and beating kids with a shoe is infamous) it’s all about looking the part (communal narcissism).
Stupid beta doesn’t know she planned her exit, like timing the market.
She wanted little meal ticket to take back to Japan.
Bear in mind, mix Asian/White marriages have higher rates of domestic abuse (it could come from her) but also divorce, compared to Asian/Asian, so you couldn’t do better.
“Non-confrontational” – passive-aggressive
“kept to herself” – hated you
“misunderstandings with parents” – hated the people with your best interests at heart, attempt to isolate you from them (she related to Jolie?)
“she viewed explanations as arguments” – so…. Asian, culturally. They just repeat bullshit until you cave. Then they fake-out walking away only to come back a few times. The only thing most of them don’t do is stamp their feet. They’re not used to being told “No”. Narcs view normal boundaries e.g. don’t shout in my ear, as offensive to them.
“if I took an hour a day to explain” – she isn’t that stupid, nobody is
“she avoided it” stonewalling, another Asian specialty, again they freeze out relatives with bad reputation socially for trivial or even good reasons like individuality or not paying the family leech
Someone please school the Asian betas, this is absurd.
“I knew this, I specifically told her – you cannot save up your anger” it’s called resentment and it’s the biggest predictor of divorce, don’t marry a spiteful bitch, however nice the mask beforehand
Well, she got her revenge, didn’t she?
Seriously though I’m on his side. Anyone writing a special course on spotting Dark Triad in Asian women would make billions off that market. They fake their femininity until hubby looks insecure, then like any predator they strike to draw first blood. Narcs, for example, always assume you’ll betray them. She wasn’t expecting to die with him, hence withdrawing from his family, keeping distance so they had no info on her or emotional rapport.
Guy was played.
She married millionaire, then made bank. Gold digger.
He tolerated her passivity as femininity, probably, meaning he would later allow her to do a runner and never combat divorce proceedings. She knew this. She tested him for weakness for YEARS.
He learned nothing, he’s still talking about “initial attraction”. That excitement is mutually exclusive to compatibility. The fun ones are always crazy. Never fuck anyone crazier than you. The attraction is a bait, an act, totally a facade, their persona when you meet is FAKE as Bella Hadid’s tits. They mirror you and mould into your perfect One. BPDs and HPDs go further with cheating tests (while cheating themselves to see if you’re jealous), sadistic punishments and all sorts.
Personality disorder people are attractive in the same way as standing at a cliff edge- because of your death drive, intrigued by DANGER. Stop crossing the wires, guys! Are they: fascinating, individually, or fucked-up, mentally? Critical difference.
This is my PSA to advice I’d give male relatives, I’m in no danger zone and see a very different side to these women (Mean Girls). There’s no mask because there’s no gain from a woman (competition), it’s the real spite up front.
They isolate women for professional reasons, men for personal gain.
I’ve missed out of tons of opportunities because some bitch randomly hated me. I want you to thwart them. Women have no avenue. At least don’t be a chump?
He goes on about communication but did NONE of that himself. He still married her. He allowed her to be non-cooperative then married her.
“We would just – have fun”
Good-time girls make great ex-wives….
“if we thought there was anything we didn’t understand about the other person we just – ignored that stuff”
all his talk about communication was bullshit, then
that’s not a wife material you propose to, that’s an acquaintance you fuck
you don’t even do that to friends, but an awkward colleague – no emotional intimacy
deep down, he sensed they weren’t compatible, spiritually, amazing how men think with their dick
almost like you’re meant to make this decision with a clearer…. head
“If you understand the core of a person, that is always there”
but you just said-
you married a stranger you fuckwit
Narcissists don’t HAVE a core, either! Hollow people exist! Soulless people exist! People dead on the inside capable of faking it…. exist!
This gentlemen, is why men had arranged marriages. Your parents could see this shit a mile off and head off your impaired dick brain disorder.
The more he talks, the more I wanna punch him. He’s so vapid.
“If you marry for social status or appearance” – there’s some self-awareness there, scratching to get out!
He still thinks she has a core…. despite still not knowing it…
There’s nothing to know, idiot.
I’ve gone on dates with this kind of guy (one date, each) in the past because they actually got scared when a woman had emotional intelligence enough to express her dark side openly. They’d be scared of the girl who can clearly, politely communicate they’re annoyed by something but later you see them with a series of crazy bitches (their words, after) who put on the nice airhead act only to be rotten in reality and it’s like… wow. Actually they kinda deserve it. Women are not sugar and spice, get it through your thick skull, this isn’t an Austen novel. If a woman isn’t saying it, she’s thinking it …and that’s VERY dangerous – to you. Because rest assured, the talkative sex (a myth but OK) has a REASON for not voicing it – and that’s usually predatory.
Dating is meant to filter out bad matches early as possible. If you want fake, you get fake. With fake longevity.
Like, how do they expect a marriage should work? You never disagree? You can’t have an adult conversation? You can’t voice frustrations with anything, personally or politically? Do they think women knit away their anger? Does that sound healthy compared to a productive, sometimes fun talk? Vive la difference can be attractive. If they want a clone without the dick, they’re too insecure to marry anyone. Did they never learn the value of confrontation as a child? It teaches compromise. It establishes and protects boundaries, it respects both parties. You need to learn how to argue to fight your corner. Anger isn’t a bad emotion per se, it’s vital for survival. Do they want a codependent or apathetic ninny? Would she stand by them or get weak and panic when times get tough? They always do over decades. Have they ever spoken to successful, long-married couples? No.
Because if they did it’s about loyalty and that seems ferocious, sometimes. Passion isn’t for weaklings.
Marriage is the union of two individuals. You are not a jigsaw piece. Conflict happens. That’s why you state a vow publicly that you stand together and ENDURE the conflict.
A person who thinks you’re worth the argument will work on the marriage. This waifu clearly had no investment in him emotionally, she was probably incapable of it with any man – best to learn that early on? Can they securely attach? Men and women don’t do that lightly. Ya gotta earn it.
She literally pouted and hid like a small infant. He left her alone to mope like a dog, so he’s thick too. You can’t marry that and logically expect her to magically mature! She was emotionally retarded! Literally! That doesn’t just Go Away with pressure!
The why can’t girls be honest lot run when regular women are…. into the arms of… LIARS!
That’s…. that’s what happens. Good riddance if the idiots and the bitches leave the dating pool, actually. Maybe I shouldn’t observe, but I’ve heard the same from guys about idiot cousins, bitchy sisters etc.
The passive strategy (ghosting emotionally, stonewalling) is common among these women because with every interaction you might see their tactics, hear a word that sounds off-key or see a mask slip. They’re minimizing exposure to the prey while timing the attack.
Graham is earlier on in the same cycle. Loner guy openly brags he’s a millionaire and BOOM magically meets his soulmate…. sure. Sure you did.
Marry her too. Kids. The works. ….Morons. She’s mirroring you and your delusions of independence.
It’s like that pure cringe Talulah Riley video that was basically a meme, until the vid was taken down (and later re-posted) – the one in the kitchen where she slipped up and mask-slipped, saying she’d have married anyone who proposed quickly.
His feels were hurt but watch her eyes and sudden awkwardness. You can see the “I fucked up, damage control” in her face as she blinks heavily, face gets all twitchy, body all stiff, as she tries to decide what her face SHOULD look like and what her tone of voice SHOULD be and what line she SHOULD say to make him think she’s capable of empathy again.
IT’S THE SAME SHIT.
1) Complains about being his wife and dealing with his kids (wouldn’t wish taking care of them on her worst enemy)
2) Said she would have accepted a proposal from anybody
3) Says her parents were traumatized by “This whole experience”
4) Talks about how she’s thought of leaving him many times
MANOSPHERE TEACHES YOU NONE OF THIS SHIT. It isn’t even race-specific although they do vary the MO somewhat according to stereotype. This makes it easier to convince you of things, like to trust them.
I love how the next clip they cut to is his sportscar and she gets a ton of presents in a tower of boxes. Wow. The video editor was answering the reason she stayed with him with visual storytelling, it was Python-esque.
I treasure it. Unsung hero.
SPOT THE FAKE FEMININITY, PLEASE. The fewer crazy bitch divorce cases I hear about, the better.
e.g. all 4 explained:
previously claimed in an interview she wanted ten kids, balks and scoffs contemptuously, glares at and avoids five
soulmate mirroring ops, slips with the anybody (who’s a billionaire) entitlement
sides with her parents over him and Them… while engaged, in lovey dopamine phase?
frequent escapist fantasies…. during key pair bonding and prime attachment time
Get the body language youtuber to study this video, seriously.
A woman with empathy says
How did she say all those stuff in front of his face like that….
She doesn’t respect him. He’s a middle-aged guy trying to marry a lingerie model. Age gap women never really respect the old coot. Open contempt. He’s mentally messed-up as she is and he’s fair game since he’s a perv, she knows he deserves it (sociopath logic). He’s leaving the mother of his children, why would she respect him?
WHY do you think Cinderella Effect is a STUDIED phenomena?
Women don’t want another woman’s kids, they’re considered like bastards. They want their own to come first. A woman interested in Stepmother is probably dangerous.
No prizes for guessing how many kids they have together now. [zero]
how blind is this guy its clearly a thot
Jewish thot. They age… poorly. Even with the surgical interventions.
Her eyes are practically shrinking into her skull like Sid from Ice Age but men look at T/A so …. okay. She’s aged like Natalie Portman but two decades early. Now she leaks gossip about the singer to websites to force them to break up so he’ll marry her again. Common MO with this type. Gossip manufacture and leakage. The call is coming from inside the house!
That’s what happens when you date someone purely on looks who has a shit personality. Ask yourself if you weren’t rich would she still be with you, if the answer is no then it’s time to move on.
Looks or the fact she’s a model version of your ex to parade around as an upgrade and you asked her to dye her hair to match? Saving face to the ex cost him to lose it eventually.
Nobody in London rated her as a model. Or an actress, for that matter. Cunty personality and no talent. With all his influence she got a smirk role in a Thor film. It was hilarious. She’s like a Hollywood 4. Everyone who knew her from her many schools (she wanted to move) was pissing themselves.
Learn the type, men. Study it like a samurai. Jumped-up public schoolgirl.
1:22 for the OOPS face, look in HD.
Reaches out to touch his arm, sexual distraction. Make him believe her lie more as she arse-covers. Feminine wiles are fine but get a bad rap when used deceitfully. You’re meant to use them in cooperation as a married couple. He is angry and shouts at the kids and you talk him down, that stuff.
For when the vid is taken down, educational purposes, SLOW-MO.
Okay or just that clip, it’s like a car crash anyway. It seems slow-mo.
A vital part of protecting marriage is cutting off the gold diggers.
The manosphere seems to have missed this part, assuming gold diggers stick around. No. You can’t “alpha frame” them into tolerating you.
Listen to Graham’s Pollyanna optimism and never sound like that.
Living with the parents but telling your wife dont interact with them? Stevie Wonder could see that divorce coming.
why tf were they still living with controlling parents?! youre married, get a house. im positive she left cause he didnt want to move out of his parents place
This is disgusting. We don’t know her side. And this guy seems like a true narcissist. I’ve seen his other video. The “millionaire” buys his wife a $20 gift and takes her to the same restaurant when she was not happy. The guy desreves a wakeup fist.
I think they’re both narcissists.
Japanese (both male and female) tend to avoid confrontation at all costs, while build up anger and resentment and having a difficulty of expressing their thought logically. For her, going back to Japan with a son to raise with her parents and in familiar environment seems no brainer. It is selfish decision though, by doing so gradually influence the son to be and think more like her. In Japan, it is very common that “ex-husband is ex-father”, hardly keep any contact with his kids, either by him or her or mutual. It’s unhealthy for the child but neither sides willing or capable to have a conversation to raise their kids together as an adult, in my opinion.
That’s Asian in general.
He didn’t say about missing the kid, there’s something mentally wrong with him.
Guy says to someone
I changed when I went from being unemployed, to getting a job — we stopped traveling so much. My ex changed when we had a child. In Japanese culture, the woman stops being a wife and becomes a selfless mother at that point. (That’s my perception at least) and its’ believed there is honor in that. I tend to think a good mother should demonstrate love to her husband to teach family values.
It’s believed? That’s the culture you married.
He doesn’t tend to think at all. Wow.
I never forced her to live there, she agreed to. Her belief that with money we could move out immediately caused issues, because we were trying to buy a house and that takes time to close. We started bidding on any random house haphazardly (even burned down houses that would cost a ton to rebuild) because we were becoming desperate. And housing in the Bay Area is so competitive we lost all of our bids.
Clearly he paid more attention to he’s job/YouTube than his wife… obvious result
He could be a psychopath. It’s possible. Still, there was deception in there somewhere although…. why sign? Did she have proof of abuse? She isn’t monetizing it.
If you won’t put the spouse above your vanity and career then don’t get married. Goes for men too. No “boys”, the loyalty is to family first or it will break down, eventually. Boys leave, your wife and kids are by your death bed.
Then again, Asia has a ton of hypergamy at the moment. In the West it ended in the 20th century, when studied.
They say when the earner loses money, divorce occurs. Cashing out.
Hypergamy and materialism of both sexes is reducing birth rates.
This is normal if r-types are shifting from r.
“Between 1750 and 1975 England experienced the transition from high levels of both mortality and fertility, to low levels. A major factor was the sharp decline in the death rate due to infectious diseases, which has fallen from about 11 per 1,000 to less than 1 per 1,000. By contrast, the death rate from other causes was 12 per 1,000 in 1850 and has not declined markedly. The agricultural revolution and the development of transport, initiated by the construction of canals, led to greater availability of food and coal, and enabled the Industrial Revolution to improve the standard of living. Scientific discoveries and medical breakthroughs did not, in general, contribute importantly to the early major decline in infectious disease mortality.”
Atheists lie about that too.
But I’m sure STDs are a hidden factor in Asian infertility, also.
Maybe selling their nubile women to cartels as blonde rape victims or sending them to work in brothels doesn’t help.
So we’re fine, contextually, Eastern Europe is screwed. They rely on large families for various cultural reasons. It keep their economy afloat.
They’re not family-oriented AT ALL.
“Poland has a very low fertility rate, lower than the majority of European countries. There is a clear cultural difference – not so much in the level of wealth, but in the quality of life.”
Yeah gotta pay that Sky TV bill on UK welfare sent abroad (really).
“In most of the other countries of Central and Eastern Europe which once belonged to this group, the fertility rate was lower than in the countries of Western and Southern Europe in this group”
“In addition, 22 per cent simply do not want to have a child.”
Actual Polish women, not propaganda you see on Youtube.
“According to the Social Diagnosis for 2015, some 2 million people could have a child, but are prevented from that, mainly by material conditions and the lack of support in childcare. For the most affluent people, the real issue lies not in genuine financial scarcity, but in aspirations and the desire to ensure a sufficiently high standard of living for the children.”
Without the national IQ to produce value and real wealth, so welfare. Gibs.
Oh yeah, their economy’s gonna be great.