Psychopath scripts and other scumbag spotting

A highly useful article

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/brainstorm/201712/5-things-psychopaths-and-narcissists-do-in-conversation

Trying to force intimacy is prior to discovering their missing parts.

Related.

When you only have a hammer…

you’re already semi-Communist.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/understanding-the-erotic-code/201712/the-dark-side-outing-men-s-sexual-misdeeds

The authors conclude that the ultimate destination sought by men is “porntopia,” that is, a place of “sheer lust and physical gratification, devoid of courtship, commitment, durable relationships, or mating effort.” On the other hand, they call women’s desired destination “romantopia,” a place of love stories where winning hearts, overcoming obstacles, and getting married reign supreme.

When you only study porn addicts….

Men invented courtly love, so that’s totally off.
There are few poetesses.

There are plenty of masculine female porn addicts (by testosterone).

It is not difficult to see how such information, coupled with the seemingly daily exposure of some men’s unwanted sexual aggression, can lead to the pathologizing of all men as shallow beasts with no control over their impulses. As a sex therapist, however, I have seen the depth of men’s suffering around trying to bridge the gap between their attachment language and their partner’s.

When you only speaking to the suffering….

And it isn’t pathologizing if they have a pathology.
NAMALT, he cries, to cover the obvious error in logic. Even if it’s 99%, that still isn’t good, is it? Never trust a sex therapist, they are some of the worst humans in existence and want to spread the misery.

 Instead, they are hoping that their partner can understand when they use language or actions in the bedroom that may objectify the partner, they are seeking erotic intimacy.

You see, there’s the stupid illogic of saying I didn’t want to kill them, your Honour, only stab them fifty times.
You bring that suffering on yourself.

Assuming women should accommodate men when the sexes are different is absurd.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/201711/the-truth-about-sex-differences?collection=1107987

Men shouldn’t accommodate women either. You negotiate and meet halfway like adults

Objectification is demeaning. It’s demeaning to male models as much as female.
You shouldn’t be demeaning anyone you personally know,it’s a form of emotional abuse, however normalised by perverts. Porn is a fantasy of women you do not know. That is the attraction. The association of objectifying them is porn-learned behaviour.

Intimacy is emotional. It doesn’t require the physical. They need to work on their emotions by speaking to the woman, not griping to another man who will console them that they’re fine – because neither get it. You’re fine, just the way you are – spoken like a true SJW. You see, the more you suffer personally, the more they gain.

Consider the source.

You don’t go to a woman for information on erections, do you?

If a woman relinquished all forms of companionship and emotional support, a man would feel repelled, however ‘good’ the sex. That is essentially what these men are doing. Do not treat your woman like a porn star. You wouldn’t want other men to and she’s the one you’re meant to love best. You can try new things without insulting a woman’s dignity, which is the more common form of virtue when chastity is out the window.

You have half the bargain. You don’t do your half, she’s in the right to walk because you fail as a spouse. If you’re not spouses, you owe nothing. She owes you nothing, because you provide no security, which all women crave. This used to be common sense.

Think back to the 50s. Did men want to think of their wife like a stripper? Did they speak of, treat her in those terms? Let alone the hooker many men think they want. Thanks MTV!

Your downstairs brain will ruin your life.

A woman’s nurturing instinct is killed dead by a man who objectifies her body, because a woman’s most precious resources are inner beauty.

Happy husbands do not objectify their wives, this erodes love over time. This should rest my case but you can’t tell a blind man what he’s missing.

 The least helpful thing one can do is succumb wholly to one’s bias toward a feminine approach to relationship, forcing the man into greater feelings of self-loathing, shame, and suppression of his desires.

Sex therapist encourages fornication.

Is that not unhealthy for the men too?
I mean, impulse control in men is just so 19th Century, and we all know how poor the quality of those average men.

And bias? If it isn’t a choice, or an obligation, how is bias the correct term?

Without balancing both of men and women’s sexual and relational needs, there is a risk of creating even more distance between them.

The Sexual Revolution has only been good for us. We are never/always at war with dissatisfactionBad sex is the cardinal sin. You have too much/too little/bad quality and there’s always, ALWAYS something wrong with yougimme money. I can’t fix the problem though, that’s down to you, and whether you feel you need more development work Mafia style beat downs to your ego, courtesy of the people who know your body better than you and just care too damn much. They only want world peace! A fuck-a-thon orgy for peace!

How about a balance of life and death? Hunger and gluttony? Nude and prude?

A balance between good and evil is not physically possible, and that keeps ‘therapists’ rolling in bucks. Either it’s prosocial or antisocial. What is sleeping around? What is an objectifying (psychopathic) attitude to the pair bonding event of sex?

Ugh, r-vendors.

At least preachers are sincere.

Psychopaths objectify naturally, we’re all ants to them. Used/abused/crushed to amuse.

Those of us who have studied and trained in the concept of healthy sexuality—not just sexual pathology—realize the vast ranges of erotic expression in humans. We have barely begun to open to the idea that what has been acceptable culturally—heteronormative, monoganormative, and vanilla sex—does not begin to address who we really are.

“Vanilla sex” is actually healthy, normal, evolutionary sex. If you can’t appreciate normal sex, there is something medically wrong with you.

There’s the money, there’s the sale, there is what you’re really paying for.

Degenerates. Always preaching, always selling.

Go gay for Putin!

To think of all men as having pathological attitudes about sex is a sure way to shut down the emerging awareness of the myriad ways in which we can healthfully engage in this most basic expression of love and attachment, and differentiate it from the unhealthy ways we are seeing it played out in the media

He just said it isn’t about love and is 100% lust but ignore logic.
OMG it’s basic how can you argue with something so basic just go to a standard fuckparty and express yourself so basic, the only way to attach to another human being requires the Kama Sutra (btw quite a shit book).

Related, do gaslighters know what they’re doing?

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/here-there-and-everywhere/201701/are-gaslighters-aware-what-they-dov

Duh. They know they get a thrill out of putting down good/kind/vulnerable people.
You wonder why there are less of them in the world?

The manipulations of gaslighters.

The Alt Right has been flooded with them, power-tripping on the quickly disappearing women and ‘beta virgins’ – no, they won’t read any evolution that makes them know how dumb they are.
“it’s okay to bully you, we’re on the same side” (in evidence, they only care about themselves, not even other white men)
“take a joke, you’re not allowed to be offended by banter” (British term, stop using it America)
“you’re too sensitive, stop caring about things” (not inc. their shit-tier opinions)
“what a loser” (by their highly subjective standards where they are #1 alpha dog in charge)

It would be sad if they weren’t so toxic. Gaslighters are a type of emotional vampire, this is why they threaten to leave – they feed on the drama of being begged to stay.

They leave when the host runs out of histrionics they can cause/manipulate (narcissistic supply) and they kill whatever movement they’re in (the cause of the manosphere implosion).

Men are dumb to gaslighters, failing to distinguish it from regular bullying or, in denser cases, bonding banter. When someone ostracizes you for existing, they’re not trying to bond?
It’s actually the Mean Girls unique form of bullying, deeply female. Isolation, esteem pummeling, all girls have experience with this. Bitchy traps like “you’re really pretty…. so you agree?” are tactically designed to plant a poisonous little seed of doubt or trigger some pain, the stupid men tend to skip ahead and insult a woman’s body parts e.g. her womb and/or fuckability, same as Mean Girls – pregnancy/whore slander and sluttiness/prude impossible fake standards. Think how low a man must be to verbally abuse a woman by her children, existent or not?

Others gaslight in order to feel some sense of control in their own lives by making others depend on them. Gaslighting can also be part of an authoritarian personality. A person with an authoritarian personality tends to think in absolutes: Things are 100 percent right or 100 percent wrong. When a gaslighter thinks that they are not the problem and everyone else is, this is called having an ego-syntonic personality.

It can be very difficult to get ego-syntonic gaslighters into treatment; they believe nothing is wrong with them.

That is called a lie.
In truth, they don’t care or see it as an advantage.
They’re the atheistkultists who lie about Darwin.

A gaslighting spouse or partner may either refuse to go to therapy, or if they do attend with you, they may tell the therapist that you are the problem.

If the therapist recommends that the gaslighter changes a behavior, the gaslighter will label the therapist as incompetent.

Even in therapy, a gaslighter may not truly be aware of, or may refuse to acknowledge that their behavior is the problem.

Worthless scum.

Even if a person is practicing gaslighting behavior without being consciously aware of it, they may get a “payoff” when their victim becomes more dependent on them. And then the cycle continues. The gaslighter also gets a “boost” when there are no checks and balances in place—no one holding them accountable for their behavior.

They claim not to be aware but they know it makes them feel strong?

K.

Someone fell for it. The sob story.

If a gaslighter is not aware of their manipulative behavior, that does not make it acceptable—it is still pathological, and it is still their responsibility. For gaslighters who have read up on this behavior or were taught it, of course, the same rule applies.

People tell them constantly. The definition of insanity? They’re just dense, they will never learn, so they’re commonly just a type of sociopath forever blaming their parents.

Negging is like gaslighting lite. They act like it’s nothing but select for the broken, like attracts like. Anyone with a spine is a ‘bitch’ or in the case of men, ‘an asshole.’ Lord Fauntleroy wants his way so the world must bow to Little Emperor…

The Left won’t stop hitting itself

Just let it.

http://captaincapitalism.blogspot.co.uk/2017/11/the-left-punishes-itselfmercilessly-and.html

Just let it happen.

Stop bailing them out like a doting father does his Princess because they begged for mercy, bleeding heart in hand. These are not your people, they are not your problem. They can go to their own, the politicians and the people who donate less to charity cases in studies, the ‘nice’ people.

Don’t be afraid to laugh at them. Their situation, their stupidity, and the fact narcissists think they can always fool you into paying for their decisions with “I didn’t know”.

This is their greatest thrill, to trick you and get everything free, on you.

The proof positive is how they back down once it’s clear you’re onto the lie: I didn’t know becomes I don’t care, you still owe me.

That isn’t a special appeal for mercy (still a fallacy), an appeal to exception, it’s a threat.

A psychopath is essentially a malignant narcissist, they are interchangeable

Traits here
http://nordic.businessinsider.com/15-signs-your-coworker-is-a-psychopath-2017-11/

The psychopathic tendency to not care about the consequences of their actions, no matter how badly they affect others, can be linked to their “remarkable ability to rationalize their behavior,” according to Hare.

While their friends and family may be physically or emotionally hurt by the psychopath’s actions, he or she will typically just deflect the blame with excuses or flat-out deny it.

Stringers vs. winners

For those women who want to marry, common sense advice.
https://www.today.com/health/reason-why-men-marry-some-women-not-others-t74671

“We ran across at least fifty men we could identify as stringers. They can be very dangerous. I estimate each one is responsible for at least two women remaining single. They are destructive because they con women into wasting their time during the years when they are most attractive and most likely to get a proposal. They stay with women, live with women, promise them marriage, and string them on and on indefinitely.”

Breach of promise.

I can change him is my best vapid line. Oh, so he’s a tire?

The r-cycle expansion plan

The ghetto was patient Zero. They always have been the canary of the west.

https://thefederalist.com/2017/11/03/research-proves-no-1-social-justice-imperative-marriage/

This is a typical infliction of r-selected conditions, classic r.

Remove supports, replace with false ones. Promise hedonism to children too vulnerable to object, the immature brains. Incite family division, rebellion, push divorce with adulterous love films (I need a chart of the N those released against the divorce rate and blame The English Patient effect). Your spouse is oppressing you with commitment!

Anything that damages the K-selected nuclear family, exposed in the long time it takes to complete a generational cycle compared to r.

I’m glad research is proving it though.

Don’t listen to the manosphere on women

It’s like asking an SJW about being a stay-at-home mother, they avoid it and they’re hostile so if you wanna marry with kids do not ask a group of perma-bachelor genetic suicides.
They might be good on other topics, like finance and hobbies, but they project all their failures away on this little one so it’s completely 180 ass-backwards wrong. You get male spinsters in their 30s demanding a 17yo Russian virgin they couldn’t even pull at the male physical peak, 18.
It’s the core topic they go on because they’re secretly obsessed (like the MGTOWs on female websites) about but it reminds me of the men who visit hookers and insist they’re good with women. Maybe because in many cases, that is them. They’re too stupid to know the women they solicit are whores. Do you want advice from that guy?
Consider the common complaints – women ruin everything (cue rattle throw), we have data proving it and state spending favours women.
Why?
Well, they ignore all the data they don’t like, do not seek out data which might prove their false faith false and fail to account for the male half of the fucking equation e.g. men don’t marry so women get pregnant out of wedlock, the rise of deadbeats and imagine if we stopped spending on women. Aside from being literally sexist because women pay taxes, no more free birth control. Would this make them happy, or sad?
I don’t think it takes a genius to figure that one out.
No free STD shots for men and no abortions for the consequence dodgers.
Happy or sad?
I think they’d riot, frothing at the mouth, right alongside the ghetto.
And they’re just as bad as the feminists, for producing children and then wishing to murder them rather than spend time and money caring for someone, it’s a damaged human you’re dealing with.
So they don’t really hate single mothers, it’s the narcissism of small differences, many produced them by failing their spouse (if you lead the house, alpha man) and divorcing. They’re just the male equivalent of the angry feminazi who wants more money for themselves and narcissist who wants all other groups to suffer, a bitter shell of a person with a thin sense of esteem and cheap ideas. As you might notice, that selfishness is the root of their problems.

You can’t ask an inferior person about how to be better than average.
Emphasis on You Go Girl?
Emphasis on You Go Galt.
~It fits!
The men need a woman like a fish needs a bicycle!
The free market cost of fucking around is a shotgun wedding, you stupid motherfuckers. Please explain how you plan to dodge in that case.


Would this make them happy, or sad?
If the Government stopped bailing out their dick.
I agree, we should stop bailing everyone out. Starting with men, because their gender role is provider.
I have a game where friends screencap me interesting Youtube comments.
Right click to open image and delete anything after a ? to see full size.
Inspired by a man’s post, sent to me by a man.

~~~slowest of claps~~~

Someone looked for negative evidence! A man of humility/quality!

Manning up refers to a series of useful actions, not text game scripts.

Ruined narcissists are only contented if they ruin those who come after them. They burned out, as player burnout widely attests, it’s a dead-end and so they now crawl like worms after women young enough to be their daughter or grand-daughter? They encourage vulnerable young men to do the same, under the guise of loving them and saving them from their instincts. Like the 70s feminists do with women.

The sexual revolution was for men because sex is all the low quality men wanted. They’re now pajama boys, porn addicts and general wastes of space creating nothing of civilizational value. 

If you only associate with the trashy women, 1. you are trash people, you don’t get to use the word degenerate as a pejorative and 2. you have no right to comment on non-trash, which is the majority if you look at say, the stats on US college sluts (only 20-30%). For the same reason you don’t ask a fat person for exercise advice.
The data they hide is the data that shows they lie.

Chinese men deadbeating Ugandan women

Uganda is worried about the number of Chinese men marrying their women
Trash.
It’s classic breach of promise.

I feel for them, never let the locusts in.
It’s classic spray r-selection sexual strategy.
Apparently it’s been happening all over Africa for a while.
Let’s hope you know better than Europe.

“We have a law in our culture which demands that you either marry that girl or compensate for damages and time lost because of the pregnancy and it is on this basis that we will demand the company to produce these workers who have abandoned our daughters with their children,” Mr Okello says.

That’s the law, you file a suit and go after all the lying bastards.

“He says they have documented a total of 20 children in the sub-county that were fathered by Chinese employees at Karuma hydro power project.
Mr Alunyu says cases of prostitution and defilement has increase.”

Defilement = rape. At this one place alone, one factory.
Why should these Asian rapists get away with it?
I’m as much opposed to that as Rotherham (although the situations varied).

https://www.lipstickalley.com/threads/uganda-oyam-women-stranded-with-babies-fathered-by-chinese.1329935/

“Some of them marry the Ugandan women just for citizenship to do business there without any repercussions as well. The Chinese are going to make Africa theirs one way or another.”

“Africa won’t be African anymore.”

I think we can sympathize there.

“I hope not. But they have more people in China than the entire African continent, and African leaders are inviting them in with no end in sight. They are there building shit and setting up businesses so their people will be comfortable when they get there. Remember, Africa has been invaded before. Europeans still have a hold on some of them. They and their fellow Asians are already getting tribal status in Kenya. And they’re doing the same in the Caribbean. Africans better wake up.
Also, in a few centuries, you can change the race of a nation or dilute the fuck out of it.

Ah, the Jewish method. Breed with nobility, much like the Muslims, where the wombs of your whorish women shall give you victory….

That’s a possibility too. Ask the Mayans and Native Americans of Mexico. Now the average Mexican is half white. The people of the Dominican Republic used to be Native Americans, now the average Dominican is a mulatto with 5% Native American DNA on average. But that’s not the main problem. It’s them coming in and taking control of the economy, taking control of the government, and becoming the ruling class in African countries like Europeans made themselves the ruling class once before.”

Have you seen China? Have you seen that concrete skyscraper shithole?
I’ve seen chav estates in small towns a million times better than upper-class Chinese areas.
They won’t stop fucking, worse than Africa. Africa has the resources they want (classic r, predate for new pastures).
They want to expand because they want another billion little replicas of themselves. That they can’t afford or they abuse into being a doctor or push into a factory age five.

“Stop being fucking delusional and wake up to what is happening. I don’t know why you’re in your damn feelings. Asians are trying to take control of the economies in African countries from Kenya to Senegal. You think they are building you railroads out of the goodness of their hearts? Did European invasion and the scramble for Africa taught you nothing?
There are 42 million Ugandans. Okay, but there are over 1 billion people in China alone and Uganda isn’t their only target.”

This girl gets it.

Maths too, I like it.

“I recall my dad saying something happening like that up north in Ghana. Chinese men came for a construction project, some of the local women had relations with some of those workers, and they got pregnant (and abandoned). Don’t groan me but from what I heard next, the women were looking for the fathers, the town did a round up of all the Chinese men left there and told them to come in and identify the father of their child and they couldn’t.”

Suuuure.
This is the problem with the Chinese in particular, they play dumb and polite to cover one another. That’s why they’re corrupt!
They’re taking advantage of women who likely qualify as retarded by IQ, so they believe the promise of marriage, which is binding in that culture. There’s more honesty in Africa than Asia, as a hangover from Individualist colonialism. Sorry, no, you gotta follow their laws. Marry her.
Black men get a hard time for the state of the ghetto. Chinese men are so much worse, it’s like a sociopathic culture. I linked a book on how inhumane it is, the self-loathing too. Unlike most black men, they are planning to get these women pregnant and abandon them. They know the woman and baby might literally die. Those are the morals of a monster.
Any place that happily fogs up its cities and is happily pumping out kids with birth defects from pollution is not to be trusted. They’re cruel enough to fuck over Africa! In this century! Haven’t they suffered enough?

She links

Damn this girl is some high IQ.

I’m impressed by you. Doing your own damn research.

“Yet if China is so good, why have these Chinese men come to Africa?”

Oh, you got it. In one. ~slow clap~ Font of wisdom right there.

Immigrants are the trash people of their country, that’s why they need to leave.
America won’t go down in history as being ruined by black immigration (not that they chose…) but the Asians suddenly let in, specifically the Chinese. When considering any immigrant, think would I want to live in that society? Then why import it? If they also spread where you are, you can never leave, you’ve lost your home.

You’re culturally homeless.

Was the inflated buck worth it?

http://www.bbc.com/capital/story/20170213-why-millions-of-chinese-men-are-staying-single

R-type scumbags. They already have it made at home so it’s like a sexual predator version of affluenza.
The women in China are on the shelf at 32, but they complain there’s a shortage?

“Some parents have been known to visit the market every week for years with no success.”
This is why we had wars, it fixes all these little population problems.
Then you get the propaganda
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4738886/Chinese-men-hot-catch.html
look up domestic abuse rates. Asians are the worst, if you can find the data.

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“Wait until those ‘western women’ meet the Chinese mother-in-law. Those new wives will take the first boat home. Those commenting here know nothing about Chinese culture. Start by learning what filial piety means. Chinese men make mother number one and wife number somewhere lower, unless the man has more modern, western ideas and his mother is dead.”

True, the outsider spouse is like a spoiled pet, male or female.
Imagine never really belonging in your own family, how tragic.

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“Honest, Caring, Responsible” Seriously??? These are men whose culture devalues females almost as much as the Middle East. It’s OK to kill or let a female baby die, because, really, what good is a baby girl? This is such a disgusting article.’

They’re sexual sadists too. Practically all of them. They pay hookers for the really kinky stuff (like literally shitting on them or cattle prods). I mean, I linked to the live greyhound dog boiling already. They invented the slowest forms of torture possible.

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“Um. I think you’d find Chinese women are resourceful and tough under that very ‘sweet’ faux submissive exterior!”

Ah, a person with experience. Yes, the fake femininity that drops around white women (that’s how I know, it’s every single one, no exceptions). It’s so two-faced but the white guys can’t read white women let alone alien expressions of disgust and phoniness.
The Chinese women with (let’s say white) men or Russians with Chinese men will be shocked by the spending habits. They do not spend on themselves, traditionally, you are not allowed to spend ‘your’ money, it’s all for the children and distant relatives you met once. Ask around, look it up. The Poles also do this to a crazy degree.
They always spend more than they make if they think they married in, because in their head it’s fair game to take ‘your’ money, all of it; it’s about status and looking good to overseas relations. Do you want to look like a sad fetish pimp?