Fake alpha narcissists

It’s like any man who must say “I am king” is no true king.

Writ large.

Mostly they’re cluster Bs, usually male borderlines, so insecure in their identity they conflate bullying and domineering behaviour for confidence, having no true self or inner world beyond the superficial obnoxiousness.

And they think it’s okay because as Bs, they project everyone else ‘must’ be the same way (only lying about it).

All the alphas I’ve met were really nice. Family men types. The kind of happy that cluster Bs DESPISE. Alpha is a breeding pair. Female alphas don’t mention it either. If you’re at the top (a 10 overall) then why be mean? Where is the gain?

How can alpha/other exist if men don’t have genetic/appearance based leagues?

Why obsess over height or your jaw then?

All those refs to ‘dating studies’ that’s really just ONE study (I think OKC?) about women filtering the top men as a matter of course – well, that’s the imperative for women – filtering. That’s the whole point of dating, to find the One. It’s feminine. It’s normal. It’s loyal. It’s SEXUAL SELECTION. Most complaints re this line are pure cope from the unfit males. If you’re alpha, wouldn’t you be in that group? How is that a PROBLEM then? If women had no standards, they’d be prostitutes. ‘Game’ is linguistically the psyops done on trafficking victims to stay as slaves, so telling normal or sub-par men to ‘improve their game’ is knowingly encouraging them to waste their time by sociopathic men who know it doesn’t work.

The self-proclaimed alpha thing for individuals (rather than sociologically, which is valid) is really just astrology for men. Leos are jerks though. It’s literally a basic bitch list of negative Leo traits repackaged as “the chicks dig this, trust random posts on the internet, would we lie to you?”

Look at their wives, that’s all I’m saying. If they had a pussy VIP pass, they’d have a 10 trophy wife.

In studies, women want a man for a husband who is high in conscientiousness. Cluster Bs are the opposite.

Why don’t the manosphere tell you dat, huh?

Self-improvement special snowflake dudebro cult

A life coach is a priest with none of the insight. Like Oprah, they tell men to be self-involved, self-indulgent Carrie from SATC types. I caught some clips of that show as a kid (where she was ranting about her shit problems and non-life) and I was confused, since here we associate friend group cults (“cliques”) and binge drinking, sleeping around pointlessly with the men, it’s considered a uniquely male weakness. Apparently America was pushing it as feminine, which never worked. Our lad culture goes back many ruined generations.

Anyway, onto the topic at hand. I don’t think men realise what losers some of them have willfully become. The concept of dishonour must come back, whether they’re perma-single or not. Soyboy and pajama boy is trying to paint exceptions for some ruined men based on tradlarp-type signalling…. no? This doesn’t work. Women perceive the sociology naturally. These ‘men’ don’t see how boring they are, like male versions of Cringe Carrie.

Just watch TOWIE to see how it’s all failed men, culturally. Masculinity = Degeneracy.

Generally:

We might be individual, but we’re not special. We’re all human so nobody is special. Individuals are rare because most people have no personality, they’re bland conformists, copycats of the rare individuals. They waffle on and whine about their dull little lives and their mundane baseless “philosophies” as if they’re Kant himself. They have no wit, not even sufficient to see how absurd they are. They are lost boys, stuck in teenage 60s marketing notions of rebellion for the rest of their sad little lives. They drive anyone with half a brain away and all their friends have nothing to talk about to one another. All you hear is a mindless repetition of ‘current events’. Over the years, they grow apart or pick up other vices to have in common. They’re base minds. There’s nothing to make of them, there is no treasure and they keep seeking within but the narcissist is hollow. They’ll die, before they find it. A self is made through struggle and self-awareness, two things the child-mind flees.. Navel-gazing is not the same. They spend money on all the silly bro trends and complain they haven’t any. They’re self-indulgent parenting their inner child. They flee duty of all kinds, even a commitment to ‘beloved’ pets, whom they dump frequently on people or in a shelter (alone, scared) to go on debauched ‘holidays’. This is the peak, this is the best their lives will ever be and they sense it. They know their low ways will ruin them one day, soon and the concept of masculine responsibility they reject as oppression. They do not love, they cannot love. Pair bonding is sneered at, like the autist also. They are shells instead of men. Disloyal dilettantes to any proclaimed cause, complete with bitchy, pointless in-fighting. Do not think you can help the husk, they decorate their bodies like a preening rat in a lab. Otherwise, who would listen?
There’s nothing there, there’s no one in there.
They’re nothing. Walking, talking nothing.
If you see it, they’ll hate you. Secretly, they hate everyone, especially if they’re happy.

They’re solipsists in practice, utterly dead inside.

It’s a generation of lost boys. However, they deserve it. They’re actually hedonists.

They’re slowly all realising they’ll never all be Tony Stark/ Bruce Wayne/ a rapper, whatever. They have a feeble, regressed sense of potential. They think they’re still fifteen. They actually think, as adults, that “one day” they’ll ‘grow up’ and become a superhero. It’s magical thinking, delusions of grandeur. They’re actually crazy.

https://www.cnbc.com/2019/05/03/half-of-millennials-think-theyll-be-rich-data-says-otherwise.html

Millennials are less wealthy than most previous generations were at the same age, the report finds, which doesn’t bode well for their chances of becoming millionaires, especially since many of them are also skittish about investing.

They’re going on their retirement holidays NOW.

This is it, peak degenerate.

Binge-drinking, yoga, “not like the other guys”.

Still, lots of young people remain confident, the TD Ameritrade survey found. Over 70% of millennial men say they will be millionaires at some point, while 38% of millennial women report being similarly optimistic.

They’re delaying their life – marriage, kids, anything, and they’ll just – delay, forever.

The One-day generation. They’ll die having never lived.

Over 70% of those men.

https://www.marketwatch.com/story/millennials-are-delusional-about-how-rich-theyre-going-to-be-2018-12-06

And a survey released earlier this year from TD Ameritrade that found that more than half of millennials expect to be millionaires in their lifetimes, with more than four in 10 saying it’ll happen by 50.

NAMALT duh, we know. If you aren’t triggered like a dudebro, I know. Again, self-awareness.

But she explains that millennials in particular “have incredibly powerful new belief systems about not capping how much money can be earned” as “there are so many careers that were nonexistent even 10 years ago” — which may help explain why they think seven figures is possible.

Still, if women had delusions of Fairy Godmother, you would’ve definitely heard about it by now.

Income relies on IQ and most low IQ people are men. They are in for a shock.

Anyone who claims to care about ‘the future of men’ would address this. It’s pleasure island except they’ll just turn into asses. That’s the end.

They don’t love.

https://www.forbes.com/sites/larissafaw/2015/07/28/watch-out-ladies-millennial-men-are-gold-diggers/

They are the very gold diggers they complain about. Classic narc projection.

 Two in 10 single adults can be classified as “gold diggers” saying that they would marry somebody for their money, according to DDB’s Life Style Study. And 54% of these gold diggers are men. And young. Whereas gold digger women are more likely to be part of the boomer generation (40% are female vs. 27% male), gold digger males are significantly more likely to be part of the Millennial generation (40% are male vs. 25% female).

Sperm is cheap, guys.

Men are just lazy. Thank God I’m not American. They’re not men, they’re males. Man up?

That phrase alone –

they are so weak, they refuse to call women, women. Broflakes. Useless broflakes.

Hell, just GROW up. Women aren’t going to rescue you, that has never happened in history. Men are not damsels. I dunno, get a sex change?

Comic: The Routine

Every. Fucking. Time.

 

Alternate title: Damsel in distress, pathological altruism edition.

This toxic colonialism is bullshit. Deport the cuckians first.

IQ has nothing to do with gullibility. Predators have their own intelligence.

It isn’t charity with somebody else’s money. Damselling is pride.

(And by all definitions I know, treason!)

If it’s about love, why do they want money? – hookers come in many forms

Behold, the savage prostitute. A dog turd spray-painted gold still smells like shit.

“I don’t care if she’s a stripper, we’re in love!” Geopolitical edition.

World, you aren’t a damsel, you aren’t even a dame. Whitey is not your husband, we owe you nothing.

Okay, I’ll be happy to give them a one-time lump sum if they 1. leave us alone and STFU on it forever and 2. are forbidden from using White developments, all of them. Globalism is expensive.

Technological multiculturalism is killing us. Literally.

Video: Why do people use me?

Wow.

This is more brutal than me.

“People who always have a need for approval from others give out signals that there’s something wrong with their lives.”

What to add? What to add?

Narcissists and borderlines and psychopaths will make a pretense at feeling like this and using these, to play the victim and use others. Look at outcomes. If they got what they wanted all the time, they’re not the victim here.

Your kids

Little Emperor Syndrome is genetic. I never met a brat without brat parents.

Great point, but reverence for marriage itself is what we’re aiming at. It isn’t about any individual being ‘happ-y’, like every divorcee ever crows, humans aren’t like dogs, happiness doesn’t happen – it’s a useful excuse to do whatever they want in the moment, usually swinging, the true origin of hookup culture. Liberals started acting like everything was all ‘for the children’ the moment they wanted access to the neophyte brains of the conservative’s children. A behaviourist once said ‘give me the boy at 7 and I’ll give you the man’. You give a liberal your kids from 3-18… and they’re a drooling moron.

Once the ‘consenting adults’ excuse to morality doesn’t apply, they have NOTHING.

Projection, envy and monstering (character assassinations, slander)

http://masksofsanity.blogspot.co.uk/2011/04/projection.html

yes nod sup Lestat IWTV film uhuh I know

This is exactly what they do, I’ve found recording their lies and inconsistences to be especially helpful. I have a particular distaste to the religious examples, but it does befit the CHINO.

For example, narcissists always project to me that I am;

  • arrogant – when I’m among the most humble people you could ever meet, I don’t think I’m that important at all
  • mean – when I’m trying to give them advice to make them happy after being very patient or simply stick in my position on a topic and refuse to “see their (wrong) side” aka fold and agree obsequiously for their ego
  • and the best of all, stupid, and they pretend to mock me – when I disprove their vapid points on every count and everyone else is, in fact, laughing at them.

It’s one of the best ways you can tell you are truly intelligent, because a stupid narcissist will always think everyone else has the accusation of stupidity as their greatest weakness as well. They will state the opposite of the truth, making up character flaws, trying to cause doubt which develops into a neurotic complex (if you believe the best thing about you is the worst you will believe anything else they tell you), perhaps a condition they fuel up to suicide (why they say “please kill yourself”). They’ll bitch about you behind your back, but that’s a sign you’re doing something right, as they wouldn’t dare confront you to your face, like an adult.

I know I am not any of those things because super-empaths, Nature’s mirrors, really like me, they find me chill and serene (unlike the narcissists, who sometimes try and call me angry, piping-hot with rage, when I’m more, at most, like irritated at a buzzing fly in my face).
It’s difficult to take those people seriously when you’ve been told by some expert authority figures (many in psychiatry) how one is the complete and total opposite of these flawed, pathetic creatures, and how refreshing that is. “Too honest” is my fave. As if that’s a real thing.

Think of it from their perspective.

They want to be positive things A, B and C. Desperately. Their whole life has been leading up to it.
They come across someone who is A and it irks them. They make snide putdowns about how being A is “fake” behind their back. Fake nice to their face.
They come across someone who is both A and B. This angers them and they try to bring this person down to their level of misery by turning their greatest strength against them – you’re not *really* AB, they’ll say, you’re the opposite, the universally hated XY, and you should feel guilty and hate yourself for being those things.
They come across someone AB and C. Rage fires on all cylinders. This person must be destroyed, or if not, cast from even their peripheral vision (i.e. urgh, I’m trying to forget <person> exists). They become bitter, vindictive, spiteful, and if this is responded to accordingly by the victim, yes, they are a real victim to this damaging monster, it should show up to their friends as an alarming lashing out. The narcissist will blame the victim, of course, it was their fault. They are normally the opposite (a sort of reverse projection again to look saintly). If the friends help purge the evil influence, which makes them act in a way that scares their friends, they won’t be angry anymore and need to take it out on anyone (including, the friends who refuse, implicitly). This causes monstering. “Nobody likes you”, “The world is a terrible place with you in it”, and “kill yourself” are all the things they believe about themselves. They have no logic behind them, unless it’s twisted beyond recognition.

If you happened on this page because one of these is after you, you have my sympathy.

You are the Victim. You can’t handle them. You must kick them out of your life, which revokes their power to ruin yours. When you’ve made it clear it’s over, they will expect you to crawl back (they’re narcissists) over the broken glass they made with your own pain. If you still have friends in common, the best revenge is to let those friends know how happy you are, since the narcissist will fish for this information.

Video: Pathological Altruism and SJWs / Cultural Marxism / PC

This isn’t an internet thing. It’s science: http://www.amazon.co.uk/Pathological-Altruism-Barbara-Oakley/dp/0199738572

Everyone needs to read this book. Damn, I need someone to upload a PDF to link to.

Essentially, everything wrong with the West exists because it exploits this psychological niche. These people have a compulsive need to give up everything they have to the point of their own destruction, and in fact, get a perverse enjoyment from the situation.

Article referenced, not as good as a whole book of research but still – http://www.pnas.org/content/110/Supplement_2/10408.full.pdf

Oxytocin’s effect of envy and gloating directly explains SJWs: http://www.scientificamerican.com/article/oxytocin-hormone/ e.g. “Educate yourself”, “Check your privilege” and other patronising non-comebacks designed to shut down debate. It’s relational narcissism. http://gradworks.umi.com/35/15/3515488.html They have nothing else in their lives. An identity movement allows them a platform for power-tripping and control-freakery (semi-religious) with no other qualification than their existence.

Normally these people would wither on the vine. The Internet has allowed them to congregate and reinforce one another’s issues, until they become a toxic, virulent hypersensitive meme. Wouldn’t you know it, reification is a Marxist concept. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reification_(Marxism) See: Patriarchy, Rape Culture, Sexual Objectification. I guess all this connection to Cultural Marxism’s philosophy is a massive coincidence.

n.b. Oxytocin increases abuse risk too, including verbal abuse. https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/talking-about-trauma/201507/love-hormone-oxytocin-linked-domestic-violence

Video: Why is modern art so bad?

I’ll interject with a little background since I happen to know something to contribute.

I once heard a thought experiment from a nouveau realist artist. They’re trying to bring back form.

If you were walking around a scrapyard, and you found this work of “art”, a little distressed and muddy, would you know what it was? Would you recognise it? Furthermore, would you feel compelled to ‘save’ it?

I’ve yet to find a better test.

AC has touched on this profound schism between the ancient standard of art (K-selected amygdala) and the postmodern ….excuse.

Historically, the turnaround point could have been at two places. The backlash against The Academy in Victorian times (Pre-Raphaelite Brotherhood’s sexualisation onward) or, it laid the groundwork for the likelier of the two. A backlash against Nazi Germany, itself in contrast to “Degenerate Art” aka what we now laud as Modern, almost a century later. When the Nazis lost, it became a show of Allies’ patriotism to oppose the Nazi standards and anything symbolically on a tangent with them (Hugo Boss suits included) and to fill the vacuum with whatever was disgusting, depraved or shocking (cough Holocaust porn cough), and call that “beautiful” to mirror the implied equality of humans (with mud) versus the racial hierarchy. What a lot of people don’t know is that the Nazis did showcase an exhibit of this inferior artwork…. next to ideal Nazi examples with perfect lighting. The contrast was apparent. Hence, when the Jews opened their own art galleries after the war, which style of art do you think they bought? Art is a market after all, a lot of money in it, and even today, the market is overvalued thanks to billionaire tax breaks. When those stop, the market will collapse, and the New Money from China will be left holding its dick.

Naturally, there are those who disagree with the analysis but the timings and statements about the only true art being ‘political art’ are persuasive ipso facto;

We can easily dismiss demonising talk of ‘the Jews who destroy art in order to break Aryan spirit’.

…Photography is to painting as pornography to real women. Both create an illusion of real thing, but leave a lingering emptiness. In the long run, the ‘real thing’ suffers. Pornography undid many happy unions. Reproduction of art conditioned us to view uninspiring beauty. It is difficult to view a painting of Mona Lisa without instinctively comparing it to its endless reproductions. In a way, the modern art was a botched response to reproductions, for an artist needs to attract attention of blasé viewers.  unz

Yet, if you dare suggest there is an objective standard of beauty, and that art must depict both beauty and technical expertise hard-won from thousands of hours in studio, the sudden shuffling of feet to disassociate with you would create another, firmer impression.

The current line? Personal ‘expression’. Lauding the Self and all it makes (cough period art cough) as God.

Think: Is the issue with the artist or the viewer?

A culture can be readily judged by the superiority or inferiority of their artwork.