Video: Trial by sex

Like divorce is new.

The Victorian emphasis on female frigidity (aside from being an excuse to outsource orgasms to competent machines) was actually more of an over-reaction to the common claim of male impotence.

Female frigidity really doesn’t mean much in a society that doesn’t value the female orgasm, Victorian men had a love/hate relationship with anything that connected their wife to their faking-it mistress. At least, it isn’t necessary for conception. Historically, it’s meaningless.

This has yet to appear in a Game of Thrones episode but it should.

Jordan Peterson: “Sex is dangerous”

There are people who don’t know this?

Have you read any history books, ever?

Where did syphilis come from, huh?

The original position of misogyny is that women carry disease.
Women are evil for making us lust (dude, look away).
Now we know it’s quite the reverse, women are more exposed to male vectors.
Women suffer higher infertility and more reproductive cancers than men.
However, men still need high awareness of the risk, a very real, fatal risk.

Here’s a law, which I’m gonna call Scholar’s Law:

If you assume the opposite of any typical Boomer position, it is likely to be correct.

e.g.

Technically, sex should classify as the most extreme sport, if we are foolish enough to consider it as exercise at all!

The Spanish Flu pandemic was also caused by soldiers. Slutty, slutty soldiers. I’m sure the weakened immune systems didn’t allow their vaccines to mutate….

https://psmag.com/social-justice/the-swine-flu-vaccine-1976-casts-a-giant-shadow-5788

They cared more for their boots keeping clean than their penis.

New hormone explains frigid men

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/319973.php

Could the levels be depleted by behaviour somehow?
Such as porn abuse?

Did you check adrenal function? In compulsive masturbators, the system is fine but the head’s wrong and eventually the glands pack up and give up.
The masturbators are not actually frigid, although their nervous system might be damaged with time. The idea that looping any addictive behaviour is fine for your health is Peak Boomer.

And by Jove, that title. It’s so true it’s painful.
The butthurt it shall produce, I should buy shares in painkillers.

Link: Sex is not the answer

Chastity has long been known, the physical temperance.

http://charltonteaching.blogspot.co.uk/2017/09/sex-is-not-answer-for-outsider.html

Sex (as such, in isolation from married love) leads merely to the desire for more sex. Sex is  – like many intense pleasures, such as heroin – addictive. Furthermore, also like heroin, sex induces tolerance, requiring escalation of dose. In those in whom frequency has reached a maximum, there develops a decadent need to push boundaries and transgress – in order to maintain the desire and the response.

Sex isn’t like eating, it isn’t a right (entitlement is pride) or necessary and it isn’t an empty or meaningless pleasure.
It literally changes your brain.
amazon.com/Hooked-Science-Casual-Affecting-Children/dp/0802450601
Lust is trained to increase only by repetition, it’s insane to claim otherwise. It’s impossible to sate. Our hypersexualised culture, which puts it on billboards before tots, is inducing more to get you in more fiscal and moral debt. How to self-soothe? More porn! Porn teaches you to be voyeur, to seek out deviant materials with no end (hurtcore) and saps the very energy you’d need to fix your life. It’s the hobby of wastrels.
Without porn, without that legal prostitution, men and women would actually love each other! Instead, they’re trained to view the other and themselves as an assembly of body parts and ranked according to the number of things their grandmothers would be ashamed of trying.

Even men are now pressured to ‘try’ everything in baby steps, or you’re a loser/bigot. It started with blowjobs (inferior to full sex and previously almost unheard of), then suspiciously Peter Pan-like women giving them, then threesomes, then anal, and now ‘going gay’. What? Are men too stupid to see where this is going? It is quite obvious by now, they want to lead you away from anything healthy and nuclear family. If everyone’s a deviant, nobody is!

https://disenchantedscholar.wordpress.com/2017/10/30/study-physiology-and-political-psychology/

Atheism (cultural) and nihilism (angsty teen reduced version) are the minimum working hypotheses of Huxley for lazy people. You don’t need to try and be good if there is no good.

Scientifically, credit goes to Freud for libidinal energy, the life force.

http://www.iep.utm.edu/freud/

And Jung for sublimation, what we’d call genius productivity.

There are, he held, an indefinitely large number of such instincts, but these can be reduced to a small number of basic ones, which he grouped into two broad generic categories, Eros (the life instinct), which covers all the self-preserving and erotic instincts, and Thanatos (the death instinct), which covers all the instincts towards aggression, self-destruction, and cruelty.

Thus it is a mistake to interpret Freud as asserting that all human actions spring from motivations which are sexual in their origin, since those which derive from Thanatos are not sexually motivated–indeed, Thanatos is the irrational urge to destroy the source of all sexual energy in the annihilation of the self. Having said that, it is undeniably true that Freud gave sexual drives an importance and centrality in human life, human actions, and human behavior which was new (and to many, shocking), arguing as he does that sexual drives exist and can be discerned in children from birth (the theory of infantile sexuality), and that sexual energy (libido) is the single most important motivating force in adult life. However, a crucial qualification has to be added here—Freud effectively redefined the term “sexuality” to make it cover any form of pleasure which is or can be derived from the body. Thus his theory of the instincts or drives is essentially that the human being is energized or driven from birth by the desire to acquire and enhance bodily pleasure.

It builds societies. The childless don’t care.
Many geniuses, where not celibate or married (chaste), were ruined or driven mad e.g. Hemingway, Byron, Edison, largely due to a certain out-of-control fault in their personality.

Sexuality is the most destructive force known to man. It reduces empires to ash.

Slaves weren’t usually brought in for labour but rape. Men always ruined themselves.
Stories of decadence and moral decay are always led by men, by the phallus e.g. pederasty.

Vice has become virtue, sex as exercise, it’s obscene.
Virtue is seen as Freudian repression, a twisted denial of the ‘goodness’ of pleasure.
Look up the raging pervert Kinsey for how that turns out. Degenerate is simply the original term for antisocial.

The whore is worshiped and any form of purity must be corrupted in the name of mature ‘experience’. Virginity is seen as a badge of shame, teenagers compete for racking up numbers an Old World prostitute would blush at.

The young are sold down the river by the lecherous old, who naturally want to predate on them. Yes, have it all, ignore all the statistics that fucking around young messes you up for life. Pair bonding, who needs that prison? Wow, why are young fuckboys so angry and desperate and lonely? They’re following their naturalistic fallacy wherever it points (women who do it are no better but follow men in the trends, if men had standards they’d adapt).

When Christians, including die-hard Catholics, make excuses for fornication, we’re all fucked.
If your politics does not extend to your sex life, you don’t really believe in it. Personal life used to define your principles e.g. I am a monk, therefore I am celibate. The hypocrisy of this age is sickening, to believe in nothing but claim superiority while debauching the same society you chide.

For example, why do family films show more than a kiss between adults?
Look at the commotion caused by The Kiss film. Scandal. When society was strong.

It’s weak, we are a West of weakness and made of weak people. They have weak impulse control and this ruins their life, as they deserve.
The alcohol advertisements have taken over where the tobacco ones left off.
The myth of Prohibition glamour made all ‘parties’ since more akin to orgies. Thanks, Mafia!
Replacing vice with vice and creating our own ills. We don’t deserve to be saved.

Show me a slut (either sex) who isn’t a wretch.

Oddly, you’ll never find a fulfilled, perfectly contented one.
Supposed bon vivant Casanova was miserable. Anyone’s happy that drunk.

“Sexy” is no longer rude, it’s meant to be a compliment!
It’s like the anal butthole problem (buttholes have never been sexy), since when is ‘I want to use you like a hooker’ a good thing?

School lied, it doesn’t make you popular, quite the opposite. Nobody wants a ‘friend’ they can’t trust around a spouse, another friend of the opposite/same sex or a sibling/parent. Adults used to have public conduct and standards of propriety. Men are little better than the women and in many instances worse (howling at people in the street). This is the First World? Our ancestors died for that?

Traps not new + non-sexual flashing

along with the so-called ‘feminine penis’. I despised typing that. Curse you internet.
I’m in a teaching mood.

Called a anasyromenos pose.

Onto the non-sexual flashing, it’s only because modern culture is heavily sexualised that we instantly view nudity as such.
Anasyrma, women flashing, is classically used to ward off evil, including demons. This is why feminists expose themselves.
It’s also a de-erotic display of nudity, non-sexualising it and normalising it like it was in classical times.

I mean, it’s just hair. Men have it on their face too.
We might call the behaviour flashing but there’s no sexual intent or arousal whatsoever, it’s comparable to the Greco-Roman attire that frequently exposed breasts or became translucent under direct sunlight. There’s no shame because we also show other body parts like arms and ankles, but it shouldn’t be objectified as sexual by a witness either.
There are female flashers and voyeurs but they are incredibly rare and the typical by far is male perpetrator, female victim. It falls under the clinical category of courtship disorder.
Meanwhile, the minority of men who sexualise everything in existence unless they aren’t involved, (then go on a long tirade about objects like sex toys being a sign of mental illness in women) are also the reason stuff like this exists.
Can the BlowYo sex toy actually replicate the feeling of a blow job?
It’s quite funny when such men, trying to appear worldly, are completely naive to the fact vibrators exist for men.
Have at it.
Should you be worried about your vagina absorbing the ingredients in your lube?
I wouldn’t be shocked if this were bad for the male microbiome too.

 

Sex and the Narcissist – 2 flavours

The porn addict

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/narcissism/2016/08/sex-the-narcissist-sadism-pt-1/

The manwhore

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/narcissism/2016/08/sex-the-narcissist-sex-addict-pt-2/

I have nothing to add, really.
The former is more likely a male borderline, in my opinion.

It’s about controlling the other person, hurting them, whether it’s setting one-sided ‘rules’ (that make no sense) or defiling them (usually more religious, actually, Madonna/Whore idealization/devaluation at play).

It’s popular to say rape is about power. It isn’t, it’s about pleasure. Sadistic pleasure.

Consensual sex is a power exchange.

Update: The second category isn’t purely a sociopathic thing.
For the second category that isn’t a predator but instead compulsive and lacking in fulfillment, self-control etc…

“Earlier research revealed that 87% of sex addicts were raised in emotionally neglectful families (Carnes, 1998).”
“Generally, sex addiction is an attachment disorder, meaning that the addict is unable to connect with themselves or others, and these patterns were learned in childhood from emotionally neglectful or abusive caregivers.”
from https://blogs.psychcentral.com/childhood-neglect/2017/07/what-no-one-ever-told-you-about-sex-addiction/

I seemed harsh because I was referring to the sexual predators that plague both sexes.
People with real issues need help, professional help.