equally yoked, repeat after me, EQUALLY YOKED
if you treat your spouse like a tireless maid or sex slave or your own child (yuck) then no wonder they’ll leave you
this is wrath, pure and simple
the prov 31 waifu ideal was extremely independent, not chained to a radiator in the kitchen
she wasn’t expected to clean and cook, they had servants! now we have appliances and part time workers
comment: “Step 1: shame women for having a sexuality
Step 2: whine and manipulate when women don’t want sex”
What kinda retard preferentially marries a woman with a low enough libido not to be a slut in THIS society then complains about it? You wanted loyalty right? It’s like parents who tell their kids sex is bad only to complain the child doesn’t want to make grandkids. I have seen this a lot with Gen Y and Zoomers, their parents whatever their political branding, shamed the kid for sexual interests, however harmless, and now huff and puff about why no wife/husband, why no wedding, why no grandparents? Show me in the Bible where it says sexual congress (intercourse) by itself is evil. You cannot. Good day Sir.
If you use ‘slut’ to mean woman with libido, you’re shutting off her libido. At the source (mind) permanently. A slut is supposed to be promiscuous (male or female) outside of marriage, a behaviour that doesn’t correlate to libido. A woman with low libido can still sleep around. You played yoself. If you wanted a ho, you should’ve done a Prince Harry and married one. You cannot convert women like that, it doesn’t work. We’re not sexual Transformers. You put on a wedding ring and POW. We’re not fucking Transformers.
She’ll also be disgusted by the male libido, since sexual shame isn’t just in one place. Idjits.
They think like socialists, like a non-slut is tabula rasa and they can programme her like MKULTRA. You cannot programme anyone sexually, even a virgin. Libido especially is dispositional in women and not connected to behaviour whatsoever. You can’t see it from the outside. If she wasn’t burning in lust for you, why marry her? Why expect wedding cake to magically make her horny? Porn isn’t real. Those women are faking. Yes, all of them. That’s why they’re paid. FFS. They treat Christians like fembots ready for rewriting like a blank CD. Not how genetics work.
comment “I’m sorry since when is refusing to have sex a sin”
Never. But watching porn is adultery. Weird how they skip that. If I were the wife I’d put on tons of gay (male) porn in the background 24/7 until he concedes it’s immoral. The really hardcore bear stuff.
Also the Bible says to often be celibate for God, like Catholic festivals. They happen every other week. And no sex on the day of rest, so that’s 1/7 of your marriage where you need other things in common. And no non-fruitful sex ever, so that’s both oral and anal out of the equation. No Pill. If you wanted pornographic performance, you should’ve married that. You cannot change a person to make them like that. What is wrong with them?
comment “I used to be Christian, and I’d just like to inform… God never fucking said those 10 commandments of marriage or whatever”
men who should be incels if society hadn’t fallen, making shit up as ‘Jesus said’
no you’re a deviant
comment “fun fact: taking her money and withholding it or controlling what she spends is actually considered abuse…..”
literally, it’s like kidnapping, they can’t fucking LEAVE and it’s infantilising since they’re basically asking for pocket money (with shades of Marxism because their own money is taken -stolen- and they own nothing – that’s a human rights violation)
combined with the isolation often pushed, it’s a cult of two
why don’t you want your wife to have friends? wtf how insecure and tragic, women outlive men
comment “If you are seriously “disciplining” your wife, you’ve already failed step one at “not being abusive”.”
Is God coming down on a cloud to whip you for not ‘obeying’ Him? JFC.
comment “The find pleasure in ur wife is surrounded by verses of appreciating her even if she is not as conventionally attractive as when you married her, and is basically saying don’t cheat on ur wife. Even the submission line about submitting to ur husband is followed by as he submits to God. As in if he is not a good man, yeet because to submit to an evil man would be wrong. Its also surrounded by she would be a help mate, as in “help” and not you know obey everything. There are plenty of stories in the bible of women doing their own thing and acting by themselves and committing minor sins in order to avoid a larger one or to get justice.”
Yeah these guys would never marry in Biblical times because they’re controlling bullies who want a woman like a pet dog.
It’s actually putting me off my own religion. I guess I could become Buddhist or something. What’s the most low effort religion. Wicca? They like trees right? I like trees.
re spanking – hitting your wife is not Christian, I don’t care what you say. If it makes you holy, why isn’t she hitting him? These guys never mean a cheeky tap as she passes in the kitchen, it’s always minimisation of BATTERY which guess what is illegal and criminal, according to codes set forth in Victorian times. Would you be okay with the police finding out, is the snuff test.
I also like how the woman is possibly lying about her fetish. If anything you encourage discord because she can’t openly ask for it.
“For disrespect” – and acting like an abusive dad would make her respect you MORE???
Putting it out there, women disrespect violence and other forms of abuse. PSA.
‘failing to care for the children’ – that is the man’s job…. THE children? No? You wanted her to make them. Her job was to make them. Your role is support.
they are YOUR children, she didn’t self-impregnate? is this beating her for yourself being a deadbeat? you can neglect your kids without leaving, by being a lazy (slothful) POS
Internet access is ruled a human right. WTF. What’s next, chain her up and take her phone so she can’t dial 999? IS THIS AN EPISODE OF CRIMINAL MINDS? Dexter would totally kill this guy. Imagine feeling threatened by meme pages. It’s like a horror film.
If ‘sexual denial’ is so wrong, she should rape him, repeatedly, all over the house. I’m serious. If he’s doing it to her, see who lasts longer. Sex is painful for men if they haven’t passed the refractory period. Meanwhile, women don’t really have one. So if I were in that situation, I’d just demand it constantly and…. he isn’t ‘allowed’ to say no right? Can he go ten times in a row? Doubtful. I also doubt a man would last longer than a day due to that kind of torture and yes, refusing to respect bodily agency like that is torture. Sexual torture includes forced ‘sex’ i.e. rape, whoever it is. What is wrong with America? Why is it always America? You can see why we, the sane Christians deported them to the colonies. What with the Mormons selling babies for rape to the Amish incest…. y’all ain’t Christian, this is Satanic crap. Stop adding to the Word.
Or you could just demand to peg him first. That would make him realise being penetrated against your wishes isn’t fun. Almost like porn is a psyop to destroy marriages.
Also, the Bible does say to treat your wife well, to love her as yourself. Prov 31 woman wore silks.
Women can go without sex for years and we actually live longer, with better health that way, so trying the passive-aggressive beta bitch withdrawal tactic will not work. Then she’ll just have a reason to keep the legs closed. Who’s more petty, men or women? The answer is both but you want sex more than she wants a dress so she will win. Have you ever met a woman who wasn’t your cousin? You have to romance a woman, even in marriage. Marriages are healthier elsewhere because American men are told romance is unnecessary once married…. tell her libido that.
This ‘advice’ is spiteful and vindictive. Is she your wife or a hostage? Why act like you hate them?
Humane treatment is not a privilege, no wonder your women leave you. I can feel my vagina drying up as I read about it.
I honestly wouldn’t treat a dog like that. You signed up to cherish her, unconditionally. Withholding affection is emotional.
Doing nice little things is the whole point of marriage, how can one person suck so much? If you don’t massage her, do you think sex is a) more likely or b) less likely? Dipshit. These control freaks always seem so weak.
Honestly if my husband hypothetically stopped allowing me outside, to spend my own money, demand a bunch of weird porno stuff and the like, I’d probably just cheat with a man who understands romance is the whole point of a union, while filing a lawsuit for kidnapping, identity theft and the many, many human rights violations. Plus a restraining order because this sounds like ways to torture your enemy e.g. they can’t leave the country? How do you imagine that being legal? Women are turned on by romance, if you shut off that dial – SHE WILL GET IT ELSEWHERE. It’s like not watering a plant and hitting it for going limp. You had ONE JOB. I don’t even believe in adultery but if the marriage is already dead because they clearly hate you then who cares? You’ve given them nothing to live for (including the basic respect of friendship) and nothing else left to lose. It’s extreme cruelty. Cruelty is when you take away basic dignity. The Bible says to leave a cold man. It is ‘better’ to leave. The Bible says you get sex, assuming you didn’t cheat, it does not promise love, lovemaking or respect. Ya gotta earn that, chap.
comment “This should be called “How to get your wife to file for divorce.””
I honestly think they must be trolling. A knowledge of reverse psychology 101 would mean they have to be joking. They’ll complain about Marxism and say where’s the incentive to work and it’s like…. have ya tried asking your WIFE?
comment “As a married christian wife, THIS. IS. DISGUSTING. And it is NOT what Christ teaches. This is a man trying to twist the Bible to serve his pervy desires”
I guarantee all these guys are porn addicts trying to go in the backdoor dry. It’s like they’re closet cases punishing their wife for not being a man. They want a spouse with a man’s libido, manual labour skills etc. They gay. That is a homosexual expectation. Why do you want a woman, only if she’s exactly like a man? That ain’t straight.
When you marry, sex is supposed to be vanilla. You literally signed up for it. You cannot turn a housewife into a ho.
comment “If you replace every time it says “wife” for “hostage” or “slave” it sounds a little more accurate”
comment “This is just a list of abuse. I can’t believe people will follow this.”
MUH BIBLE is not a defence in criminal court. It looks like they have a Stockholm Syndrome fantasy.
Your wife is not your captive. Trauma bonding, even if it did occur, is a temporary phenomena. Survival instinct over-rides it.
comment “This is a step-by-step guide on how to turn people away from Christianity.”
This makes me want to be an atheist more than anything I’ve read on reddit.
“These type of men act like women aren’t human beings” narcissists view all other humans as objects, the wedding is an excuse for violent projection
Treat her mean to keep her keen – is the very reason American divorce is so high compared to other Christian nations. Abuse makes them hate you, not obey you. That advice is given by perma-single men because women eventually run away or by bitter divorcees trying to ruin the next generation out of envy. Angry old men are not a valid reference point for happiness. Is a fat guy a reference point for fitness?
comment “Huh so marriage is about treating your wife like she’s an animal that needs to be trained and having the husband control her life and things she does, well then guess I’m not getting married”
Animal husbandry is not literal. If she’s too ‘stupid’ to need control you shouldn’t have married her.
Michael writes “This isn’t just misogynistic, it’s rapey and disgusting. I’m extremely uncomfortable knowing that someone actually wrote this.”
comment “Treating your woman as an inferior being is not Christianity Taking away her freedom – Sexual, financial, emotional is not Christianity Forcing her to be at home is not Christianity This shit is not Christianity, it’s insanity.”
Kidnapping, false imprisonment, bunch of felonies really. I want a criminal lawyer to look over these.
Sexual perversion is Satanic.