What is a wife in the Bible?

http://www.womeninthescriptures.com/2010/11/real-meaning-of-term-help-meet.html

According to Genesis, not inferior.

 I learned that kenegdo could also mean “in front of” 

You don’t marry an inferior.

She was designed to be his mirror opposite, possessing the other half of the qualities, responsibilities, and attributes which he lacked.

Eve was Adam’s complete spiritual equal, endowed with an essential saving power that was opposite from his.

 

Where are all the K-types? [good men, good women]

Has she been reading me?
This is basically verbatim what I’ve been saying.
You self-improve and you’re not entitled to anyone.
You don’t deserve a good person.
Good people are naturally attracted to other good people.
If they don’t want you – guess what. You’re not good enough. You’re likely aiming too high and don’t know your MMV.
My marriage matrix is one of the most popular posts.
It’s also common sense.
The worst one is when sluts want a virgin.
Seriously, WTF is wrong with you? What’s with the fetish?
What happens after the honeymoon? They’ll hate you even more than another slut would.

For practical K-virtues in a man?

This girl nails it.
So clearly, men try to disqualify and ignore her.
Obviously you need to be independent to ~keep~ a wife and ~support~ a family.
It isn’t shallow to say that’s the goal, it’s basic biology.
Your forefathers are laughing at you and weeping at your tantrums over the way the species operates.
It’s bare minimum. If you don’t have one set of ambitions, why have the other that can’t be supported on air?
It’s like wanting a sportscar and never saving money but dropping five figures on gourmet coffee per year.
Your problem is obvious as it is basic.

If you can’t look after yourself, alone…………

The idea women don’t have a right to describe to men what they demand in a mate is preposterous.
The list wouldn’t be shocking, basically good father material.
She should’ve bullet-pointed. Try to be…..(more)
If the answer would be “I wouldn’t want my father to be that way” it’s a bad thing.

Briefly, K-women are at more of a premium than ever. They can afford to be more selective than ever. If you don’t respect this, they made the right choice in rejecting you. And wouldn’t you really rather a woman say No than accept you into an unhappy marriage because you were available to one another, despite the lack of fit?

The woman trying to secure a man, any man like a leech… because her biology is screaming at her, isn’t a good woman, the one you want.

Men can’t really perceive lack of fit in a relationship, women need our EQ for this, the peahen discernment skills.

Men display, so be the best unique display of yourself you can be.
Then who cares if you find your swan? You’ll be developed, you don’t need an accessory, scantron wife of attributes XYZ to impress other men, man.

Word of advice?

Don’t be so blackpill and embittered.

Women run a mile. We know everything sucks but it makes you sound personally weak.

Don’t do the macho thing either.

We can see right through you and you can’t keep it up the rest of your life.

Actually, a list of Don’t Do (This) would be more useful.

Then they’d bitch at us more for telling them the truth – you can’t handle the truth!

Selfish people get divorced. Don’t be selfish.

Useful links
https://disenchantedscholar.wordpress.com/2015/11/08/the-simple-decision-to-marry/
https://disenchantedscholar.wordpress.com/2017/04/10/women-used-to-be-ladies/
https://disenchantedscholar.wordpress.com/2017/01/27/born-again-christians-are-the-worst-cucks/
Don’t think you can trick us, we’re not stupid.
The majority of child IQ is maternal IQ, do you want dumb kids?
https://disenchantedscholar.wordpress.com/2015/10/31/links-the-sexual-revolution-robbed-women-men-have-never-had-it-so-good/
https://disenchantedscholar.wordpress.com/2016/11/09/todays-women-yesterdays-prostitutes/
https://disenchantedscholar.wordpress.com/2015/10/15/where-are-the-real-men-where-are-the-good-men-dead-mostly/
“Men gave up first. They gave up on the white picket fence for a few easy lays”
https://disenchantedscholar.wordpress.com/2015/10/18/link-the-blue-pill-expectations-bubble/
https://disenchantedscholar.wordpress.com/2017/03/02/why-do-i-keep-things-simple/
https://disenchantedscholar.wordpress.com/2017/02/04/why-wont-women-wait-until-marriage/
https://disenchantedscholar.wordpress.com/2017/01/02/why-cant-slutty-men-find-non-slutty-wives/
https://disenchantedscholar.wordpress.com/2016/12/28/link-why-are-women-so/

Too much brain?

Look at all the vintage inspiration stuff.
Make a private pinterest board to start figuring out likes/dislikes.

Design the life you want.
Life design is crucial and really what self-improvement is all about.

Actually, why aren’t there any vintage man blog and youtubers? Vintage lifestyle, music, fashion, books…. I’d like to see that, it’d be good for men.

Start with artofmanliness.com 

Be the best man you can be.

 

Actual hatefacts to offend everyone

OR
Nevermind, your fear is completely justified.

Feel free to make your own.

So let’s talk about the Red Pill, shall we?

This little red pill where any group is magically exempt from criticism… almost like a privilege. Offense is “how dare you imply my demographic is morally fallible!”

Shall we?

 

Marital selection from the Bible

To balance out this dismal talk of divorce risk, some positive advice.

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs+31

Listen, my son! Listen, son of my womb!
    Listen, my son, the answer to my prayers!
Do not spend your strength[a] on women,
    your vigor on those who ruin kings….

Biblical MGTOW, hate to say it. Don’t sleep around, waste of energy.

It is not for kings, Lemuel—
    it is not for kings to drink wine,
    not for rulers to crave beer,
lest they drink and forget what has been decreed,
    and deprive all the oppressed of their rights.
Let beer be for those who are perishing,
    wine for those who are in anguish!
Let them drink and forget their poverty
    and remember their misery no more.

Addictions are bad whoever is doing it.

Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves,
    for the rights of all who are destitute.
Speak up and judge fairly;
    defend the rights of the poor and needy.

Chivalry.

A wife of noble character who can find?
    She is worth far more than rubies.

The question is, can you ‘keep her’?

11 Her husband has full confidence in her
    and lacks nothing of value.
12 She brings him good, not harm,
    all the days of her life.
13 She selects wool and flax
    and works with eager hands.

Household contribution.

14 She is like the merchant ships,
    bringing her food from afar.
15 She gets up while it is still night;
    she provides food for her family
    and portions for her female servants.
16 She considers a field and buys it;
    out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.

Intelligent, business-minded.

17 She sets about her work vigorously;
    her arms are strong for her tasks.
18 She sees that her trading is profitable,
    and her lamp does not go out at night.
19 In her hand she holds the distaff
    and grasps the spindle with her fingers.

Sounds vaguely workaholic but this was before the washing machine when everything took ages plus she had servants. Will your future wife have servants? So it is reasonable to expect exactly the same output?

20 She opens her arms to the poor
    and extends her hands to the needy.

Community spirit.

21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household;
    for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
22 She makes coverings for her bed;
    she is clothed in fine linen and purple.

Colour of rulers. Mistress of the house?

23 Her husband is respected at the city gate,
    where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.

Power couple. Ambitious as a unit.

24 She makes linen garments and sells them,
    and supplies the merchants with sashes.
25 She is clothed with strength and dignity;
    she can laugh at the days to come.
26 She speaks with wisdom,
    and faithful instruction is on her tongue.

Sage, stoic, talks but doesn’t nag aka is correct.

27 She watches over the affairs of her household
    and does not eat the bread of idleness.
28 Her children arise and call her blessed;
    her husband also, and he praises her:

That’ll be the day.

29 “Many women do noble things,
    but you surpass them all.”

Romance within the marriage.

30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
    but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
31 Honor her for all that her hands have done,
    and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

By the connection of marriage, an honourable spouse brings honour unto you, like a glow cast over your house.

If you don’t respect them before the wedding, don’t bother.